I'm nervous about the intentions of this guy from Myspace!
Q. dear cupid, i need your help. so this guy requested me on myspace and i never add people unless i know them. he knew me from high school and also knows my brother so i added him. i started to put sad statuses on my myspace(because of my boyfrien...
A. 16 October 2009: Well do what you want...but remember
when you post those statuses over on Myspace everyone else can see them on your friends list. Basically you started unneeded drama by doing it, so of course anyone that has a sense of wanting to get into you... (read in full...)
Is this harassment?
Q. My ex broke up with me about 5 months ago. I found out he started dating a girl a week later and they are still together. I stopped all contacts and explained to him my reasons. He has been sending me emails which I do not respond to. I find the...
A. 16 October 2009: Ok....
I had the same problem with an ex who went nuts on me.
DO NOT RESPOND TO HIM AT ALL EVEN NOW..IT WILL GIVE HIM A REASON TO INITIATE MORE CONTACT.
If you even tell him again to stop, he will use it as an excuse to keep it up...NO CONT... (read in full...)
Why is my ex acting so weird?
Q. My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and we talk very little. When we do talk she doesn't have much to say or she seems a little annoyed. When she saw me at a football game last week she ran up to me hugged me and told me she missed me. She hugged me ...
A. 16 October 2009: SHE IS A GAME PLAYER, PLAIN AND SIMPLE!
She will keep doing this in public and make sure she tries to mess with you if she sees you talking to other girls...She is immature...
Stop speaking to her and delete her from your life, or this crap wil... (read in full...)
What would explain my husband's strange behavior and impotence?
Q. What can you do, if you have no way to find out what is causing your husband strange behavior, and impotence? I'm spending my last 4 years ,trying to find out why did he turned impotent, and why he seem to be much more distant ,he used to be. I...
A. 16 October 2009: Have you not asked him to see a doctor? I mean I agree with Jayney here. It could be erectile dysfunction. You say that the doctors have no answers...were you with him in the examining room? I mean I have a hard time believing that doctors have no ... (read in full...)
Parent imposed curfew has destroyed my social life! Why have they turned against me?
Q. I'm 20 years old but feel like a child as my parents treat me like one yet treat my younger brother like a adult. My parents brought my brother a house for him and his gf to live in but have raised my rent to pay for the mortage and the expensive ...
A. 16 October 2009: Wow I am very sorry. sounds like your parents are playing favorites. About the curfew...
You are a legal adult, and yes they may say the old "If you live under our roof you will abide by these rules". But legally they cant stop you form coming a... (read in full...)
He was shocked I had herpes, looked at pictures, and panicked! Will he ever call again?
Q. Hi, So my new boyfriend broke up with me. We've only been together about a month. But here's the thing he was very, very attentive up until the past couple of days. Our relationship has been progressing physically, so I have had to tell him that...
A. 16 October 2009: Its probably partially both. If you have been only seeing each other a month or so, you will find somebody else. Most likely the more he thought about it, the less wonderful he felt a physical relationship with you. Many people may get mad and say ... (read in full...)
Over drinks my boyfriend brought up a threesome. Am I a drama queen for how I reacted?
Q. about two weeks ago my partner and a friend of mine were having a good old drink or two, when my partner suggested a 3 some and within seconds of him saying this my friend a girl, then came onto me. i responded at first as my partner was glaring me ...
A. 16 October 2009: Well as I have said before, you need to be very comfortable when these situations are brought up because someone ends up getting hurt out of it.
Drunk or not you should have said no and stuck to it. But being that has already taken place, it seems... (read in full...)
What is the smell that's coming from my private area?
Q. please help!!!! i have a problem with a smell that is coming from my private area. it seems to be coming from the hair cuz at times ther is a white substance coating the hair and it stinks. i have tried differant soaps and altho some seem to help ...
A. 15 October 2009: Yeah you better see a doctor, I don't know but you being a guy I don't think you wanna be pouring a Gallon of Summer's Eve on yourself or trying Monistat.
May I ask when you had relations if you suspected your partner was cooking a loaf of Sourd... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin my marriage but I love his company! Am I wrong?
Q. I'm married with 2 kids. My marriage is a mess. To makes matters worse, I was at a family get together and started talking to my cousin’s husband’s brother. He respects my situation and claims to want to rescue me. We live in different states which ...
A. 15 October 2009: Well please give us an update when you can. Ultimately I find your case interesting if for no other reason that almost to a person we Agony Aunts and Uncles were almost in complete agreement, which is rare.
See ya in a couple of months
Best of... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and refused to give me a clear answer.
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me and refused to speak to me in person or even give me a logical reason behind her decision. We are both in our late 30's and have had many relationships before this one. When I met my ex, she was divorced for ove...
A. 15 October 2009: I sure have experienced this...Its called being full of crap...DUMP HER!... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin my marriage but I love his company! Am I wrong?
Q. I'm married with 2 kids. My marriage is a mess. To makes matters worse, I was at a family get together and started talking to my cousin’s husband’s brother. He respects my situation and claims to want to rescue me. We live in different states which ...
A. 14 October 2009: Exactly, Female Anonymous...Exactly!
Original poster, I really dont know whopw much we can help you. It looks like pretty much all teh agony aunts and Uncles are in consensus here.
And frankly, if you knew he was as devout religiously as h... (read in full...)
How do I warn other girls my ex has Chlamydia?
Q. An ex passed an STD onto me last April and has recently told me he didn't get treated. Mainly because he knows that it makes men and women infertile and no-one can say he's got them pregnant. Obviously I'm not with him anymore and I have a dut...
A. 14 October 2009: OK...I don't know about Great Britain, but in a few states here across the pond the fact that he is knowing passing an STD to wone can be considered a felony.
What you need to do is to contact each and every one of them by phone, post or email. I... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend has a baby with someone else!
Q. Hi i just found out that my boyfriend, that i been in love with for the 3years had a child 5 months ago with another women! I dont know what to do, and to make matters worse i was pregnant two months ago and he told me to have a abortion because he ...
A. 14 October 2009: I agree with Marie here...Get rid of this tool asap, and dont look back.
I am so sorry, your BF is a complete and utter asswipe who makes all of us me look bad.
Simply tell him that you know about his other baby, and make sure you file for chi... (read in full...)
Is talking on chat lines a form of cheating?
Q. my husband has recently been talking on this chat line invu, he stay up all night talking to women about things that are inappropriate,i have talked to him about it and he is staying on it. he say it isn't cheating because it is not real, I think it ...
A. 13 October 2009: Its emotional cheating...plain and simple...your husband is addicted to it. I think cancelling his account will be a good first step, and perhaps getting him into marriage counseling. I mean take a look at some of the posts here with Facebook... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin my marriage but I love his company! Am I wrong?
Q. I'm married with 2 kids. My marriage is a mess. To makes matters worse, I was at a family get together and started talking to my cousin’s husband’s brother. He respects my situation and claims to want to rescue me. We live in different states which ...
A. 13 October 2009: So ley me get this straight... you want to leave your husband, break up your family, on a whim to travel? Knowing it wont last? Knowing you dont really want anything from this? Uh...there is so many red flags here that my eyes are covered in... (read in full...)
Meeting girls in the gym- a good or bad idea?
Q. I don't have a huge social scene these days,I'm getting too old for clubs etc, really (I'm 35 but an told I look alot younger) and am not too keen on them if I'm being honest anyway. The only social thing I do regularly is that I go to the gym al...
A. 13 October 2009: Try being yourself...look at it this way. You have something in common with the others at the gym: You are trying to better yourself physically...there is a start. But I suggest once again just be yourself...honesty is always the best policy and you ... (read in full...)
Should I give it a shot and hope for the best?
Q. My ex and I broke up 2 years ago. He moved across country but we've still maintained contact over this time period. We both started dating other people and actually discussed with one another that it was preventing us from moving on as we talk, e...
A. 13 October 2009: Young lady,
Long distance relationships rarely if ever, work. It takes constant communication, and trust. Being apart, as I am sure you have experienced, simply leaves too much wiggle room for either party to stray and make a mess of things. ... (read in full...)
Is he an alcoholic? And if he is, what should I do?
Q. hi I am worried about my bf of two years. He drinks alcohol alot but I don't know whether I should class him as an addict. sometimes he'll go for weeks without drinking but others he drinks every night of the week and even when he has hardly ...
A. 13 October 2009: Being that I am a recovering alcoholic and drug addict (8 years clean and sober) what I can tell you is that as much as you love him, that he can only stop when he has had enough of it. he will not stop permaently for you or for anyone else . He ... (read in full...)
Husband angry because while seperated I slept with someone else
Q. My Husband and I were separated. While separated I slept with someone else. I now am trying to get him back. How do I keep my husband. He read some stuff on my computer and got very angry. Again we were separated. What do I do ?...
A. 12 October 2009: Were you legally separated?
That may not mean anything in the large scope of things, but if my wife slept with someone else while separated and then tried to get me back, her ass would be sitting in the rain while I pursued my life.
Hey you... (read in full...)
Is it jeolousy or is it her?
Q. My girlfriend I have been together over 4 years. We were planning to get married this december, but we had been having some arguments/differences, and I had started to have some serious trust issues with her. She started to hang out with a single ...
A. 12 October 2009: Ah the dreaded FACEBOOK! Young man, social sites such as Facebook and Myspace are RELATIONSHIP KILLERS!
Look through these threads with a Facebook Tag or a Myspace Tag. If there is anything wrong in a relationship, those places bring it out into... (read in full...)
I'm married and I know I need to end this relationship
Q. I am involved in a emotional affair with a man that I have known off and on for 4 years. I have become very close to him and have fallen completly for him. I am married and I know that I need to end this affair. I have tried to just be friends with ...
A. 12 October 2009: You cant find love in your marriage if you are seeking love outside of it.
Part of being an adult is taking responsibility for our actions. The fact that you have let this go on for this long means you do not take your marriage vows seriously. I su... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that his girlfriend kissed me?
Q. I have a good male friend that has a girlfrind that he has been dating for a few months.She is a really cool person,but for the last month or so,i having been getting this flirty vibe from her.At first i thought that i was tripping a little bit ...
A. 11 October 2009: OF COURSE!
How long have you known your friend, and how long have you known this woman?
If you value your friendship with this man you will let him know right away. To do anything else is to condone what happened, and basically you are helping ... (read in full...)
I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts.
Q. Hi. I have a dilemma. I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts. He's really sweet, kind, generous, loves me for me, I can be completely myself around him, he's dependable, smart and hard working with a ...
A. 10 October 2009: Of course you cant understand what I say, just like most other people you came here looking for some kind of justification or green light to leave your significant other on a whim without doing any work...feeling guilty about it and actually doing ... (read in full...)
How do I handle such strong feelings I have for a guy when I'm in a relationship?
Q. I have been in a relationship for over three years now. my boyfriend is a very sweet and kind person. I know that he accepts me for who I am and I do not feel like I have to work to impress him. When we first began dating I was completely head over ...
A. 10 October 2009: YOU CANNOT FIND LOVE IN YORU RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE OUTSIDE OF IT!
Do you have any inkling that all the time you spend worrying about this guy at work whom you have NO IDEA if he has feelings for you, that you could be spe... (read in full...)
How do I make being with my wife's sister happen?
Q. i had a chance to be intimate with my wife's sister about 2years ago, and i didn't, now i am regretful that i didn't. i am regretful because i am overwhelmly in love with her. i think about her everyday. i pray and ask God to make a way that He wil...
A. 10 October 2009: Just when you think the full moon is over.....
LMAO! I smell a Troll Post afoot.
Sorry, I don't swing at fastballs. ... (read in full...)
I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts.
Q. Hi. I have a dilemma. I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts. He's really sweet, kind, generous, loves me for me, I can be completely myself around him, he's dependable, smart and hard working with a ...
A. 10 October 2009: Young lady,
relationships take Work. And I may suggest a relationship counselor at this point. Jesus, not every day is a harlequin romance!
Give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Do you realize that all the time you spent writing this "po... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insults me and punched me in the back!
Q. My boyfriend of almost two years has a huge insecurity about how he compares to other men. I have reassured him (for these two years) that he is the man I want and who I want to be with - oh, and I am 26, he is 30. Last night we were out to...
A. 10 October 2009: Im sorry, that happened to you. I am afraid that it is time for you to leave the relationship. If he punches you in the back, what is next? someone compliments your looks or says "Thats a pretty dress you are wearing" and when you get home you get ... (read in full...)
Should I stay because I did wrong and I deserve this?
Q. Hello well i feel really confused and i need some advice. I have been married for 2 years. After a couple of months of marriage i found out my husband met up with another woman in an inappropriate way (he says he didn't sleep with her) after that i ...
A. 9 October 2009: Well revenge cheating means that you are no better than your husband. Sadly it is always that way. You should have taken the high road the first time, but you didn't so now you must be the adult you claim to be and take responsibility for your ... (read in full...)
I'm suffering from "You don't know what its gone until its gone" syndrome
Q. On Monday my girlfriend of 4 years 9 months told me she wanted to end it. We met many years ago when she was an exchange student at my high school in Florida. It was my senior year and she had another 2 years left of gymnasium once she got back to ...
A. 9 October 2009: Dude, she was screwing around with her room mate.. This type of letter to you is a clear indication that she has been for some time. Basically if you read between the lines of her letter and her actions towards you before the break up it is q... (read in full...)
Will he forgive me for cheating?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. We live together, and have for the past 3 years. After years of being together, I cheated on him. I am not going to make any excuses. I know what I did was wrong. I knew it when I did it. ...
A. 9 October 2009: Actions not words....
only through actions can you ever hope to regain his trust, because when you SAY it will not happen again, you cant be sure of that...
Frankly, you should have felt that guilt before you spread your legs for another man.... (read in full...)
Is a runny nose normal when giving a blow job?
Q. I am 20 and finally have a serious b/f that I really like. We have been dating 2 months now and see each other every day. About two weeks into our relationship I told him that I wanted to wait until I was married to have sex for the first time ...
A. 9 October 2009: Dear Kleenex,
I cant believe this happened to me........ (read in full...)
He cheated on 4 girlfriends! will he cheat on me too?
Q. So.... my boyfriend of a year and I have talked about moving in together in the new year. We have known each other for like 7 years, and he is not only the love of my life, but my bestfriend. Thing is, he cheated on 4 of his 4 past g/f's, but ...
A. 8 October 2009: Young lady,
come on!
he cheated on 4 GF's and you are considering moving in with him?
You have answered your own question.
Cheaters are all the same,both genders. If you want a boatload of drama and a relationship that ends in di... (read in full...)
He told me acted that way because he was angry at me and grieving. Is that reasonable?
Q. My fiancé and had been getting along really well. He is close to fifty. He was laid off and was struggling to deal with that and the fact that his dad was very sick. We went up to a cottage together where, one night I got really mad at at him. I was ...
A. 7 October 2009: Yeah it is....You should be apologising to him, not him to you. Blame alcohol all you want, but that was just insensitive ion your part,BTW...I think it is an indicator that yuou cant handle booze, so stop drinking. I myself have spent the l... (read in full...)
I'm at a stand still with someone I love who doesn't know what she wants.
Q. Well, I'm kind of at a stand still right now, and I need someones opinion. I'm 20, now ex girlfriend is 31, she is married, and has 2 kids, and says she loves her husband more than anything, unless they are in a fight. Her and I dated for 2 year...
A. 7 October 2009: Lol...You want to come here and talk down to us because you dont like the advice...get in line. We see people like you here every day. we know exactly what we are talking about...why dont you settle down and look at your post there,because if you ... (read in full...)
Should I tell the truth about my shady past
Q. 5yrs ago I was at a very bad place in my life I was addicted to crack and pills and in an abusive relationship. I lost my job because of drugs and to support my and my bf;s addiction I beganing doing things I am very ashamed of. I slpet with dealers ...
A. 7 October 2009: I tried to PM you but for some reason I was unable to, so I'll post part of what I said here...Maybe I'll be able to finish it at some point but I am having some mailbox issues.
Do you have an NA or AA sponsor, or are you going it alone? I know i... (read in full...)
Should I tell the truth about my shady past
Q. 5yrs ago I was at a very bad place in my life I was addicted to crack and pills and in an abusive relationship. I lost my job because of drugs and to support my and my bf;s addiction I beganing doing things I am very ashamed of. I slpet with dealers ...
A. 7 October 2009: I commend you for getting clean(I myself have been clean now over 8 years as I am a recovering alcoholic and cocaine addict myself). But what happens if he finds out about it? Are you going to use this secret as a crutch or a trigger to pick... (read in full...)
I'm at a stand still with someone I love who doesn't know what she wants.
Q. Well, I'm kind of at a stand still right now, and I need someones opinion. I'm 20, now ex girlfriend is 31, she is married, and has 2 kids, and says she loves her husband more than anything, unless they are in a fight. Her and I dated for 2 year...
A. 7 October 2009: I know what you mean, Q...I was drowning in irony on that one! LMAO... (read in full...)
I'm at a stand still with someone I love who doesn't know what she wants.
Q. Well, I'm kind of at a stand still right now, and I need someones opinion. I'm 20, now ex girlfriend is 31, she is married, and has 2 kids, and says she loves her husband more than anything, unless they are in a fight. Her and I dated for 2 year...
A. 6 October 2009: Wait a minute!
You were helping a married woman cheat,a woman who has children, and now you are upset.
SHE HAS CHILDREN...of course her children are going to come first!
I dont know why you would even hold a candle for a married woman. And... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has this theory that because he works longer hours and makes more money, he shouldn't have to lift a finger at home?!?!
Q. Is this normal? Am I crazy? OK so I have been with my man for almost 4 years now. Right now I am between jobs so I pick up most of the slack with the housework. Here's my problem. When I am working full time I am also responsible for ...
A. 6 October 2009: Well....
I guess your man didn't get the memo that being in a relationship, especially when living together require SHARED responsibilities.
Im very sorry that is happening to you, and I am afraid that he probably is a bit of a Momma's boy.
... (read in full...)
How do I fix this after cheating with her friend?
Q. So the other night my brother and I decided to go drinking, we drank... heavily and set out (in a cab) to hit the bar. We get to the bar, hang out, life is good, we met some cool people. Now that being said, I woke up and a girl was leaving...
A. 6 October 2009: I think you already know the answer to that.
You cant find love in a relationship if you are looking for love outside of it.
Drinking is no excuse, so don't try to b.s. us here with "you don't remember"
Part of being an adult is taking resp... (read in full...)
Is it too weird to date my ex's friend?
Q. I dated my ex boyfriend for about 6 months. We have been broken up for about the same amount of time now ( he broke up with me and started dating his ex) i was sad because we got along great and things were getting a bit serious between us, so it ...
A. 5 October 2009: Well, I do know that their is an unwritten code amongst guys that when you break up you don't date their friends, but that may be an out dated notion. I don't know, maybe I'm old fashioned in that department. Actually since you admitted that yo... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and refused to give me a clear answer.
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me and refused to speak to me in person or even give me a logical reason behind her decision. We are both in our late 30's and have had many relationships before this one. When I met my ex, she was divorced for ove...
A. 3 October 2009: She is a drama queen. stop looking for closure or answers, you will find none. Sounds to me as if she found someone else and is conflicted whether to keep you around in case guy number 2 doesent pan out. That type of behavior is the type of... (read in full...)
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