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Why do I feel so tired all of the time? Maybe the emotional problems in the past two years?
Q. I often feel very tired all the time I am normally a happy person even though I have been hurt so many times in the past I try to be positive and smile through the pain.. I am just wondering why I could be feeling really tired and drained all of t...
A. 28 September 2008: It sounds like you could possibly have clinical depression. If you are having any mania with this (hyperactivity) then it's possible that you are bi_polar. You should consult with your medical professional. You may need to have meds and /or therapy. ... (read in full...)
Should I wreck their relationship so I can have him?
Q. ok so there is this boy and we are both 13 he is my nextdoor nieghbor! I really like him and he flirts with me all the time. even my parents like him but he has a girfriend and i want to go out with him so bad it makes me feel so sad when i see them ...
A. 22 September 2008: The best of relationships sometimes started out *Just *Friends. As his friend you should allow him to be with whomever he wants. Consider this, you say he is flirting with you, is he really? Perhaps he is just being nice and you are taking it that ... (read in full...)
My baby's mother is moving away with our daughter to another state, what can I do to stop her? I want to see my baby grow up!
Q. my baby mother is moving away with daughter and she's going to be 2 years old in a week. what can i do to stop her? she is moving to another state and i want to see my daughter grow up! I have done every thing for my daughter from she was born and ...
A. 22 September 2008: If you are no longer together she has the right to take up residence in another state, however you do have rights. My suggestion would be to consult with a lawyer who deals in this type of case. He will be able to give you whatever information that ... (read in full...)
If his wife was taking care of him, he wouldn't have to lean on his female students. He isn't 'traditionally' attractive but should I flirt with him?
Q. A few months ago, I couldn't help but fall for my much older principal. Sure he isn't TRADITIONALLY attractive, but looks aren't everything. He has a big.....let's just call it a 'beaver'. I just know it. He also has a really cool voice, kind of ...
A. 14 September 2008: Get a reality check here! Sometimes when a person seems to be flirting they aren't..and even if a married person really is flirting ...it doesn't mean that the spouse isn't taking care of them!
Sometimes one part of the marriage couple will use... (read in full...)
Does this sound like something that's beyond hormonal problems?
Q. I'm on the birth control pill Desogen and have been taking it every month for 18 months now. For the first like 17 months I had virtually zero adverse symptoms, but this past month was a nightmare. I felt nauseous pretty much every single day, had ...
A. 10 September 2008: It could be a number of things. It could be time to change the pill! The female hormones in the body (or lack of) can cause all types of problems. Depression (there are different forms) can have lots of sypmtoms,naseau can definantly be one along ... (read in full...)
Why can't I bring myself to tell her "I love you"?
Q. I'm in hs and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We are close and in the early stages of our relationship use to tell each other that we liked each other a lot. Now I feel like I love her... not necessarily that she is the one ...
A. 8 September 2008: Love isn't always found in form of words but in deeds. Remember that actions speak louder than words! It is possible that she already knows and is just waiting to hear it from you. If she was taught to hold back she could indeed be waiting before ... (read in full...)
What do I do now that he isn't showing any interest?
Q. Ok, an update of my situation... I dumped my boyfriend a week after our 10 month anniversary. Everythings fine there now. I persued guy #2. (Mightve mentioned this already but) we met up while i was still with my boyfriend and we ended u...
A. 8 September 2008: It seems that at one point you were both attracted and interested. However you probably were having problems with your b/f at the time so you ventured out a bit with the other guy. This is actually never a good idea. It is considered CHEATING! You ... (read in full...)
Is what ever happens for the best or do I need to choose?
Q. right, im extremly confused at the moment. ive known this guy `stu` for nearly 3 years, and from about the 2nd day of knowing him i have fancied the pants off him, and over time learnt to love him. 1 year into knowing him he gets a girlfrie...
A. 7 September 2008: Stu may think of you in the same manner as you do him yet again he may think of you like a best female friend who he might want more with. Do consider that if he has cheated on his girlfriend with you he could in turn cheat on you. If you have ... (read in full...)
I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!
Q. Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...
A. 4 September 2008: Sometimes guys are just that way. One might have changed their mind or perhaps they realized that they needed you to be completely free before persuing any type of relationship.
In in... (read in full...)
I'm a needy, clingy guy! How do I change this?
Q. OK, so I'm a needy clingy guy, like all of the girls the guys always talk about being sick of. When I'm with someone, I think about her non-stop, cant wait to call/txt msg/email. I've been seeing this girl for 2 months now, and I think it's starting ...
A. 4 September 2008: BACK OFF!!! Give her time to miss you. Find something else you can do with your time. Get a hobbie,go Karoake,go shopping,take long walks..just do something for you. Care about her from afar and practice being alone. No one wants to be alone all ... (read in full...)
Does she have a personality disorder?
Q. i'm confused about a personality issue. A couple I know is getting divorced. He pretty much can convince her of anything. He told her not to get a lawyer, not to tell her friend and family until after the agreement was made and signed and she does ...
A. 4 September 2008: It's a possibility she might have co-dependency or perhaps just suffers from low self_esteem. When she never speaks up it maybe out of fear of the husband wrath or perhaps she was brought up to not question the Man of the house.
In either c... (read in full...)
I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!
Q. Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...
A. 4 September 2008: You are welcome and sorry about this posting twice. Sometimes my computer times out or something and post my replies tiwce.
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!
Q. Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...
A. 4 September 2008: Sometimes people get so caught up in their own lives they don't place significance on someone they only met once. If he seemed interested it could be he really was or perhaps he was just trying to be nice.
The odd attraction you spoke about sa... (read in full...)
I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!
Q. Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...
A. 4 September 2008: Sometimes people get so caught up in their own lives they don't place significance on someone they only met once. If he seemed interested it could be he really was or perhaps he was just trying to be nice.
The odd attraction you spoke about sa... (read in full...)
She's a bit bigger than I thought she would be, and I only half like her. Should I have sex with her and marry her?
Q. i am unmarried and one girl loves me alot. we become friends through a dating site. but the first day i met her i felt very bad due to the reason she is not so good looking. Actually she is a fat girl and that to, too much. As, such i ignored all ...
A. 8 January 2008: Your chapter has been closed in your own mind. You don't even realize it! The shame is that you also don't realize that real beauty comes from deep within. If you don't see the beauty in her you will never be happy and she most certainly will not ... (read in full...)
I really like him but he is 5 yrs older than me and going out with my sister!
Q. hey. i like this guy but he is 14-15 and i am 10. he is soooooo cute but hes is sooo much older than me. i have not told him but he comes over all the time. he thinks i am funny and smart!!!! does that mean he likes me? but if he does that would be ...
A. 23 December 2007: It seems you have a crush. Just remember that you are a bit too young to persue a serious relationship other than friendship with a guy of this age. Keep in mind that he is also your sister's bf so that is a definate HANDS OFF!! It will only affect ... (read in full...)
I lied (and lied) to a man I met online...
Q. i lied to a man i met online. i lied about almost everything except my views on certain subjects, my feelings for him, some things about my past,my clumsiness and "dorkiness", things like that. i didn't want to lie to him, but something inside me ...
A. 14 December 2007: Almost always nothing good comes from anything based on a lie. Once you have been untruthful it is often hard to convience anyone that you can otherwise. However with internet relationships you must be careful. Who's to say this person has been ... (read in full...)
My ex has half my heart, but my current boyfriend has the other half
Q. Ok lets start out with this i'm 17 so is my boyfriend and he's so sweet but has ADHD and he gets on my nerves alot but ya o well I love him alot but he really not my first love if you know what I mean my ex ( first love ) came to my window crying ...
A. 13 December 2007: You have to be strong enough to choose. Ultimately you are going to break someone's heart. If your ex is crying then he is very emotional. You must weight your love for him against you new love. You must think about what is best for you in the ... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with my wife or move on?
Q. Hello, about a month ago I decided to move out of the apt. that I shared with my wife of eight years. I decided to break up with her because I felt I could no longer trust her; but now I'm having second thoughts about what I did and I'm ...
A. 13 December 2007: Sorry this thing posted twice. It didn't show up so I had to repost. Now it is there twice. Even Angels make mistakes. *Smiles The best of things are yet to come. Thank God he isn't thru with me yet!
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with my wife or move on?
Q. Hello, about a month ago I decided to move out of the apt. that I shared with my wife of eight years. I decided to break up with her because I felt I could no longer trust her; but now I'm having second thoughts about what I did and I'm ...
A. 13 December 2007: I am reading here that you must have heard something in the voicemails that made you think she might be having or contemplating an affair. Since I don't know what the voicemails said I will assume that you could have possibly had the right to feel ... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with my wife or move on?
Q. Hello, about a month ago I decided to move out of the apt. that I shared with my wife of eight years. I decided to break up with her because I felt I could no longer trust her; but now I'm having second thoughts about what I did and I'm ...
A. 13 December 2007: I am reading here that you must have heard something in the voicemails that made you think she might be having or contemplating an affair. Since I don't know what the voicemails said I will assume that you could have possibly had the right to feel ... (read in full...)
I look after my parents and can't move to my bf..what can I do?
Q. Hello I am 38 years old and still live with my parents as i cant afford anything else, and as i am an only child and with no family close by i am my parents carer. The problem is that i have met somebody who lives a round trip of 100 miles away, ...
A. 12 December 2007: Being a caregiver is a hard thing. The choices one has to make do not always seem fair to the caregiver. In your case if your b/f knew that you had this obliation in the beginning it would be unfair of him to expect you to just move in with him ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I like as my friends advised me? I'm 13, he's 27. Worried about ruining our relationship.
Q. Well for the last 3 months I've been talking to this guy. He's turning 27 soon and I"m only 13. We talk all the time and about last month I started to have feeelings for him. My friends say it's not wrong, but the age differance conserns me. They ...
A. 12 December 2007: You are too young to have a b/f who is 27 period. On most accounts someone of his age who seems interested in you is after one thing. They are pedophiles or sexual predators. Please let your parents in on your conversations. You need to be very ... (read in full...)
I have moved out of our house, but I really want to break up completely. How can I do this?
Q. Hi. I'm 40. I have been in a relationship for about 8 years. There has been allot of water under the bridge. About 5 years ago, we got engaged and bought a house together. She suffers from chronic depression(even before I met her) and it was very...
A. 11 December 2007: I am assuming that you knew she had trouble with depression because you stated she had it before you met her. You continued on into a relationship for 3 years. If you did know but stayed and tried to make things work then you must have loved her and ... (read in full...)
My brother is having surgery today and I need some prayers and word of support
Q. My brother is undergoing surgery to remove a brain tumor today. He has been fighting brain cancer for 5 years. We lost our Dad at the end of September. He is only 11 months older than me, so when we were growing up, we were very close. If you ...
A. 11 December 2007: You are so welcome hon. I hope that all your dreams come true.
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I met a great girl but she has just discovered she's pregnant by her ex. Should I support her or break up?
Q. I just recently met a great girl and I connect with her like I never have with any other girl and we really really like each other.. but she just recently found out she is pregnant from her ex. it happened about a month ago before she met me. should ...
A. 11 December 2007: If the two of you are in a dating process of the relationship I don't see why you should break it off. You didn't mention anything about long term committment here. There was no mention of either of you being in love. You simply stated that she ... (read in full...)
How can I win my ex back?
Q. i want to get back with my ex!we were together for a month but now that i saw him again,i miss him!we broke up after my decision and i don't even remember why i told him to break up!he is my dream man,and we had so much fun together!i really want ...
A. 11 December 2007: If he really cared for you then chances are he still does. If the breakup was your decision then you have to be the one to set things right.
I think that letting him know you are still his friend is ok. You could possibly suggest going out so... (read in full...)
My brother is having surgery today and I need some prayers and word of support
Q. My brother is undergoing surgery to remove a brain tumor today. He has been fighting brain cancer for 5 years. We lost our Dad at the end of September. He is only 11 months older than me, so when we were growing up, we were very close. If you ...
A. 11 December 2007: I can certainly feel your pain. In 1980 my Father was diagnosed with a cancerous tumor. He was given 6 months to live. He died just short of 6 weeks. I was the only person he knew before he passed away. It was his time as was your Father's. My ... (read in full...)
Should I have let my older boyfriend fondle me? It made me unconfortable, but was I just being childish?
Q. I'm a female. I have a boyfriend called Ricky (not real name)he is 24 and i am 16 (i know big age gap but he and i get along really good). We ain't made out yet but he wants to. I went to rick's house when his parents were out somewhere and we did...
A. 11 December 2007: If you feel uncomfortable then you aren't ready for this kind of relationship. He is older and if he can't respect your feelings then you should move on and find someone who will.
Seek God's plan for you and soon enough you will find yo... (read in full...)
A guy told me he loved me online and I said I loved him, too. But I dont! We barely even know each other!
Q. i need help. there is this guy at school that likes me. he came on msn and hes like i love you.... stuff like that.then hes like you dont like me, dont talk to me. bye i did a stupid thing and told him i loved him then hes like you wanna go out a...
A. 29 November 2007: First of all hon even if he does really like you he used the oldest trick in the book. It's called MANIPULATION!! You didn't have a chance to decide if you like him well enough to ever date him much less love him. He pushed your buttons and made ... (read in full...)
We've been together since we were 5, now we are 13 and want to start having sex, what to do??
Q. hi im 13 and im going out with a boy the same age and we have known eachother since we were 5 and have always been close. We sneak around because we dont want everyone to know about us. not even our parents know because they will tell people. ...
A. 20 November 2007: I read your post over twice. I am wondering why if you two are so close and have already waited for 7 years what is another 3-5 years. You can still be close and hang out. Date if you will but let your parents know. Let them be involved in your ... (read in full...)
There is no way to get in touch with him
Q. I went too Canada during the holidays. As we are waiting in the waiting zone i notice this really gorgeous guy. He was looking after his 2 little brothers while his mum and dad went too get food. Although he was gorgeous he looked shy. Which was ...
A. 19 November 2007: You have seen him at least twice already. You know that he is in close vacinity of your locations. Give it time and you will probably have contact with him again.
Don't rush things as you are so young but if you two do meet up and you get ... (read in full...)
I drank and had stomach problems.
Q. Help please yesterday i was drinking too much and i was sick 3 times. 2 of the times was normal sick but the last time i was sick it didnt look normal it looked like just liquid stuff but strong like acid it didnt have the normal sick stuff in it. ...
A. 19 November 2007: If you drink often you are wearing away the lining of you esophgus and the stomach. It can wear holes in either and cause very serious conditions. The condition called Gastro Esophogial Reflux Desease (GERDS).When a person who drinks is ... (read in full...)
We like each other, he still hangs around with his ex, and I don't have much free time, should I ask him out?
Q. Well hello everyone...I recently told my crush how I felt about him and he told me that he feels the same way towards me...Were not going out because I believe that he still has feelings for his ex..I think this because they still talk like ...
A. 19 November 2007: I am sure that if he talks to you every day and he has asked you out before then he obviously is interested. If he talks normal to his ex..What is normal? If he and his ex have left the relationship on good terms it could be that they are only ... (read in full...)
I'm scared about this guy on the internet.
Q. I met this guy on the internet and we have started dating I love him soooo much but the thing is He cuts himself and doesnt go to school me and his best friend got into a fight and he cut himself what can I do to help him? He says im the most ...
A. 19 November 2007: Your b/f is doing what is called Self Mutilation. He cannot control his pain or hurt about what he feels. He turns his anger inward against himself. He indeed needs to get professional help. You can't stop him from doing this because it is his way ... (read in full...)
Does she still love me or want to be with him??
Q. Me and this girl was friends, and she had a boyfriend, she would always tell me about how horrible of a boyfriend he was and how he doesnt listen to her, he was never there for her, etc. etc. So she broke up with him, and she started being with me, ...
A. 14 November 2007: Well it does sound like she is a confused young lady. She obviously loved him or she wouldn't be with him. However loving someone doesn't make it the right thing to be with that person. There are many reasons that she is still talking to you and ... (read in full...)
I go to him but he makes less effort to come to me! Do I accept this because I love him or seek elsewhere the attention I need?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. We live about 5 miles apart, and in the beginning he would come over to my house to see me, call me regularly, and tell me how much he missed me if we didn't see each other during the week. As ...
A. 14 November 2007: It sounds like he is placing such value on that independent status he can't let enough of himself go to give you what you want and deserve. I would suggest backing way off. Take a trip out of town and don't call him til you are gone. Let him go ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my ex's welfare, is this so wrong?
Q. Help! I have not seen my ex for 6 months. The other day, a buddy told me he had seen her at a store we used to work together at, talking to a former colleague(female)..my buddy told me she looked pregnant, or she had put alot of weight on..he said ...
A. 13 November 2007: If you care about her and you two are still friends there is no harm in getting in touch. Call her and see how she is doing. That is what a friend would do. It sounds like you still might have alot of deeper feelings for her because it seems to ... (read in full...)
I want to be more than friends but he is hung up on a girl thats not interested, how can I make him see?
Q. ok ... well the thing is i am starting to like this new guy i met, we are really good friends by now, but the problem is he is really into this girl who doesnt like him. Believe me, she already told him. I want him to forget her and see that he ...
A. 13 November 2007: It sounds like he might like you. He is at least kind and appreciates your beauty. Remember that you must be his friend first. That is how he probably sees you anyway for now. If he cares for someone else he has to be the one to decide. If his ... (read in full...)
We've decided to abort. We were close to engagement. Is her dumping me now likely to be a self defense/preservation reaction due to hormone changes and being scared?
Q. Help!! I recently found out my girlfriend was pregnant. It was a great shock to us both. We both have children from previous relationships. We talked about the options and both agreed a termination was the best option, although we both considered ...
A. 13 November 2007: It sounds like she wanted you to know and the reaction she got pushed her to make a decision she really doesn't want. It could be she wanted you to be happy as it could be that she is. However if she feels that you really don't want this child ... (read in full...)
I can't retract my foreskin. Is this a problem?
Q. hi im 15 years old and i've only realised about a year ago that my foreskin doesnt roll over the head of my penis this is scaring me ....i dont want to go to the doctors about it because it would scare me and i would get really worried incase i had ...
A. 13 November 2007: Circumsision is a minor operation. Don't be afraid to have it done. If the problem you have is annoying to you or embarrassing then talk to a doctor about having it taken care of. If you keep yourself clean otherwise and you don't feel it's a ... (read in full...)
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