I'm falling for her, but she has an LDR with a guy in basic
Q. Okay, so I'm a senior in high school, and I'm starting to fall in love with this girl who's also the same age. I'm pickin' up some good vibes coming my way from her, but nothing definite. However, she has a boyfriend - two years older than her and ...
A. 15 September 2011: Also I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate your advances considering you know the situation she's in, and are going to try and go for it anyway. Her boyfriend probably means the world to her.
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I'm falling for her, but she has an LDR with a guy in basic
Q. Okay, so I'm a senior in high school, and I'm starting to fall in love with this girl who's also the same age. I'm pickin' up some good vibes coming my way from her, but nothing definite. However, she has a boyfriend - two years older than her and ...
A. 15 September 2011: No, you shouldn't go for it. Why? Because she's in a relationship. Doesn't matter whether its long distance or not, she is unavailable.
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What the hell am I supposed to do to get through her trust issues? I want to be her hero and save her from this nightmare...
Q. Okay I'm gonna jump right in and say it. I've fallen in love with a girl! And here's my problem. This girl, we'll call her Rose for the time being, has some serious problems. I met her over the internet and I know that some of you will be like " D...
A. 7 September 2011: You just have to respect her wishes. In order for you to have any type of relationship, it has to go both ways. If she isn't willing to open up again, or talk about why she's acting this way, then you cannot force her.
The only thing you can do i... (read in full...)
He says he can't do long distance but then says he will wait for me. What?
Q. This is going to be kind of long, but I'll try to keep it as short as possible: I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I just moved away to finish school (only 3 hours away from him). He told me from the beginning that he has trie...
A. 7 September 2011: If he really loves you and doesn't want to lose you, he will do all he can in his power to keep your relationship alive, no matter the distance. "love knows no distance".
I think he will be missing the sexual part of your relationship, and by b... (read in full...)
She checked out the waiter and now I'm wondering if I should be worried?
Q. I have a fiance that i am mad about, but i got a bad impression a few days ago that has been driving me crazy. We were at a bar having drinks, when a decently fit waiter showed up to serve us, and could see that she was impressed by his appearance ...
A. 1 September 2011: Everyone looks at everyone. Men check out women, women check out men. Women check out women, too. It goes which and every way. Just because someone eyes someone down, does not mean they are going to pounce them.
I don't think you should be worri... (read in full...)
Something's bothering me.. What should I do?
Q. I really like this guy... We hung out twice and ended up sleeping together. I hadn't had sex in a while and figured we'd hang out and eventually go our separate ways. I've gotten closer to this guy and I really like him. I wish we waited to have ...
A. 1 September 2011: Don't have sex with him, simple as that. If he really wants a relationship with you, he will wait until you're ready again. If not, and he disappears off the face of the earth, then you know he considered you as just a fuck.... (read in full...)
My BF and I have a few issues. Should I leave him?
Q. hey, im a 17 year old female and have been seeing an 18 year old guy. hes extremely physically attractive and we get along quite well, except for a few issues: #1: he can get very very jealous and wants to know where i am at all times. #2: he wa...
A. 29 August 2011: Agree with the others... leave... (read in full...)
My friends say I am losing my dignity. How do I get over being rejected by him? I am beside myself with grief.
Q. Hi, I'm 31 and have guy issues. Oh yes...as always!!! i wake up with (Everyday) what feels like a knot in my stomach and feel like I'm about to be sick as reality of what has happened hits me. I thought I met the perfect guy and his very good lo...
A. 28 August 2011: He is not worth the trouble. He was wanting a relationship with this new woman, but still wanted to see you on the side? I'm glad you were not okay with that. But it seems like he may not be in favour of monogamous relationships, so I think you'll ... (read in full...)
He's been talking to other girls. should I let go of him or stay because of familiarity?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for more than a year and a half. I love him dearly and would move mountains for him, and for a while, I believed he felt the same. He was my first, and I was hoping my last. But now our relationship is on the rocks ...
A. 28 August 2011: Don't put up with that. You deserve to be happy and deserve respect from the man who loves you. He clearly does not respect you, and clearly will NEVER learn. Leave now before any more damage is done.... (read in full...)
My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes
Q. My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to thin...
A. 25 August 2011: Never gave her reason to think you were cheating? You were texting other girls and prostitutes to relieve your sexual urges. Apologise to her and don't do it again. You should be able to have sex with your pregnant girlfriend up until full term ... (read in full...)
Is there anyone genuine on the internet?
Q. Has anybody met anyone genuine on the internet? I have met some really rude people and am beginning to wonder if it's me. Met one guy who sent me an email with bullet points saying why he didn't want to meet again. Another guy brought 3 con...
A. 21 August 2011: Have I met someone genuine on the internet? Yes. Sorry I'm not a male, but I just wanted to say that you will usually find someone when you least expect it. I met my significant other online (not on a dating website, however.) We developed a strong ... (read in full...)
Why is her vagina so loose?
Q. so the other night me i was engaging in some foreplay with my fiance i got her to orgasm a couple of times, now not ever in our 3 year relationship has she let me finger her because she says that nails scratch her inside and it kills. anyhow this ...
A. 19 August 2011: Some women are just naturally looser than others. I would suggest looking up kegel excercises. They help a lot.... (read in full...)
Very insecure, which causes me to be scared of everything in the relationship
Q. Me and my boyfriend have indeed broke up in the past, but now we are together and better than before. In the past my boyfriend broke up with me and that totally shattered me. And possibly my lack of trust for my boyfriend is because I have been hur...
A. 7 August 2011: The best thing you can do for both you and him, is to learn to love yourself. There's no need to try and be like someone else, because then you're not being true to who you are. If you don't become comfortable in your own skin first, you're forever ... (read in full...)
I am getting the feeling that he may not want me to come up.
Q. I met this guy online last year. Not only is he 10 years younger but lives 2 hours by plane. Over the past year we have seen each other 3X and continued to chat, etc. We are planning to see each other the August Long Weekend. I am flying out to...
A. 19 July 2011: You need to talk to him and ask him straight up. I am in a long distance relationship also, and whenever there is a problem, I always make sure to bring it up and talk it through. Communcation is crucial.... (read in full...)
Can you fall in love with someone you've never met?
Q. As the title says, do you think you can fall in love with someone you've never met? Or have you?...
A. 15 July 2011: I made a friend online late 2009, and have spoken to him every day since. We have yet to meet, but we are meeting in 5 days time. He's flying to visit me and he's staying with me for 3 months.
Why so long? We get along well. We make each other ha... (read in full...)
I'm never going to find a guy! Is it my size or what?
Q. Hey so I need help. I'm starting to think that I will never find a guy. I'm a plus size model (fiercely real) and have had guys tell me im gorgeous but never want to be in a relationship with me. Is it my size or what? Its kinda lowering my ...
A. 7 July 2011: I would try to ignore these guys that you're finding. When someone likes you, they will like you for your inner beauty as well as your outer beauty. Being a model, I am guessing that you have that outer beauty. However sometimes it can be ... (read in full...)
Is it because I'm a virgin?
Q. Hey, so im 16 and im dating my brothers friend who is 23. We are very close and have no secrets. He wants to marry me and have me live with him once I turn 18. He has this issue down south and he gets an extremely unbearable pain if he doesnt have ...
A. 7 July 2011: Pretty much what everyone else is said. There's no such thing as this pain, and if he's feeling horny, he can masturbate. Simple as that.... (read in full...)
My guy wont stop dirty talking online but I know he truely loves me
Q. ok i know my husband really truly loves me and after screwing up 3 times already by talking dirty to girls he dont know online says he dont know y he does it he doesnt deserve me and actually cried the last time and i never seen him cry. i know ...
A. 7 July 2011: Usually when people start going online for sexual purposes, they feel like they need that attention because they're not getting it in real life.
Sometimes the online thing can turn into real life cheating, so it would be best to nip it in the bud ... (read in full...)
I've made a mess. How do I tell my best friend I had sex with her boyfriend?
Q. I have been dating this guy for two years. (Lets call him, Kyle.) And everything was perfect. He would send me flowers just because... not many guys do that! He also is very big on his religion and respects me. Kyle is sweet and amazing. All my ...
A. 27 June 2011: I agree with Flynn, I'm so shocked at how people are telling you to lie about this. I also don't get how it can be an "accident." It takes two to tango.
If you have any respect for your friend, you will tell her the truth. She needs to know tha... (read in full...)
My best friend has feelings for me, I love him too but I'm not totally over my ex. What should I do?
Q. I don't even know where to start.. Well, my first relationship was with a guy I would have given the earth to, I did pretty much anything and everything he asked me to - I completely doted on this guy because I loved him as well as him being my...
A. 24 June 2011: I'd say give yourself time before you go jumping into any relationship.
I was in a similar situation, and my friend didn't push me to be in a relationship with him. He was just there for me when I needed a shoulder to cry on, and put up with a l... (read in full...)
Has anyone had a long term relationship coming from a friendship?
Q. Have any of you had luck dating friends? I have this friend but I'm interested in more. She's beautiful and intelligent, we have some common interests. Of course I'm afraid to ask her out on a date cuz I'm scared of rejection and affecting our ...
A. 24 June 2011: I knew my current partner for a year as just friends before we decided to get into a relationship. We realised that we shared a lot of the same values and interests, had the same sense of humour, and were attracted to each other. The only thing ... (read in full...)
I'm the complete opposite of my new boyfriends ex and I feel like I'm always being compared to her...
Q. Ive become very paranoid. Basically I'm the complete opposite of my new boyfriends ex. I'm only his second serious relationship so I feel like I'm always being compared to her. She's blonde and wears a lot of makeup whereas I have reddish brown ha...
A. 13 June 2011: If he's still talking about his ex around you, in a way that makes you compare yourself to her and feel lesser than you should, you need to tell him straight up.
If he can't kick the habit, then you need to leave. Why subject yourself to this? If... (read in full...)
How can I be more accepting of his need to party and give him some time?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in our mid 20's and are very serious (I.e. We own a house together). I feel like in the past year he's been going out more and more without me. He recently told me that since he didn't do the whole college thing he feels like ...
A. 13 June 2011: Its not really okay to go partying with other girls and saying you can't come. I think its okay for couples to party together, but when he's telling you not to come, that's not really OK. Why wouldn't he want to have fun with you? Or is it that he's ... (read in full...)
Feeling very guilty for cheating on my girlfriend....should I tell her?
Q. I cant stop this terrible feeling of guilt after cheating on my girlfriend recently. I want to tell her but im scared if i do i will lose her. She means the world to me and im gutted ive now ruined everything after a stupid one night stand. Ive lied ...
A. 13 June 2011: I think its better to tell her as soon as possible. You know the guilt is already eating you up inside. If you tell her now, you might have a chance to save the relationship because even though you've made a mistake, telling her and being honest ... (read in full...)
Feeling very guilty for cheating on my girlfriend....should I tell her?
Q. I cant stop this terrible feeling of guilt after cheating on my girlfriend recently. I want to tell her but im scared if i do i will lose her. She means the world to me and im gutted ive now ruined everything after a stupid one night stand. Ive lied ...
A. 13 June 2011: Honesty is the best policy. She deserves to know. Whether she leaves you or not is up to her, but her reasoning would be justified if she did. Cheating is never OK.... (read in full...)
How often do you think about your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Q. A question for everyone; how often do you think about your girlfriend/boyfriend/significant other? As in, how many times a day and does it vary depending on what stage in the relationship you're in? I tend to find that I really think about the ...
A. 11 June 2011: I think I'm still in the honeymoon period with my partner.. it's been 6 months. When my mind isn't concentrating on other things, I'm thinking of him.... (read in full...)
I'd like a little reassurance from my LDR boyfriend but I don't get it!
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together long distance for a little over a year. When we started out, the "honeymoon" phase was great. He texted and called all the time, he was sweet, etc. It's pretty safe to say that the honeymoon period's long ...
A. 9 June 2011: Hi there, I am in an LDR also. You're lucky you only live two hours away. My partner is on the other side of the world. You guys should try and see each other more often.
Do you feel that you're always the one initiating stuff? Or do you sit arou... (read in full...)
Is it worth it to try a LDR again?
Q. I got speaking to this lad that i really like, we was speaking for a year then i finally got with him however we only lasted 6 months as the distance was too far. I live in leeds and he lives in birmingham. He recently asked me back out, and i would ...
A. 9 June 2011: Well with LDR's, there's usually plans to meet up every now and then, and the end goal involves one party moving to be with the other in order to close the distance.
If you guys aren't able to make the visits and aren't willing to move, then I w... (read in full...)
What could my parents do legally to my 19 year old boyfriend?
Q. I'm 15 years old 16 in a month, my boyfriend is 20. We had sex when he was 19. I got pregnant but he's been by my side through it all, my parents knew his age and never complained. Until recently when we told them that he will soon be getting a ...
A. 9 June 2011: Well he can be charged with statutory rape. You had sex with him, and I assume it was consensual to you, but in the eyes of the law, when an adult (person over 18) has sex with a minor (person under 18), the minor is not capable of actually giving ... (read in full...)
I want to move out from my parents go to Canada, but what do I do if my request visa is rejected?
Q. I know this isn't the place to be asking this but I need some help and advice. Please read, I know its long but Id very much appreciate as much input as possible. Im 21 years old and I couldnt be more lost in life. For years Ive put up with an a...
A. 9 June 2011: Wow.. I'm so sorry to hear about what you've had to go through with your parents. If I were you, I would move out NOW, prior to going to Canada. That is an extremely unhealthy environment, and holding a KNIFE to your neck IS NOT OKAY.
Find ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my parents about my online boyfriend coming to visit me?
Q. Sorry, this may be a bit long. I have been talking to my boyfriend online for two and a half years, and we have been together for one year. I truly enjoy his company and love nothing better then spending time with him. We broke up awhile ago be...
A. 9 June 2011: I think you should be honest, and tell them long before he comes. If you're 19, you're old enough to think and do for yourself. Your parents really shouldn't be controlling your actions, even if you live under the same roof. Yes, living under the ... (read in full...)
I still miss my ex and I am supposed to be meeting my new LDR boyfriend soon!
Q. It’s been 9 months and i still miss my long distance boyfriend… .i miss everything we had..i miss how it used to be..how he was my best friend and love in the same person..i miss the emotional closeness we had, i miss the care and understanding..i...
A. 8 June 2011: I was in a very similar situation to you.. except the new guy knew about my last relationship.. and rather than trying to jump into things, he was just there for me as a friend. We became best friends over time, and I realised he's like my other ... (read in full...)
Isn't this a little too serious a little too fast?
Q. My girlfriend freaks out every time someone comments on my photos on fb or writes on my wall. We've only been dating for about a week but whenever someone writes something on my wall or on a photo she panics and starts questioning me about it. She ...
A. 8 June 2011: Yeah it is quite serious... I don't think you should be dating her. She doesn't seem ready to be in this type of relationship. Maybe be her friend and give her time, but don't be "official" until she can learn to grow up a little bit and build her ... (read in full...)
What went wrong here?
Q. Okay, a few days ago (literally) me and my boyfriend broke up. We had been going out for almost a month but before we went out we'd had a a thing for almost two months though. He is having to go away for the entire summer to florida to live with his ...
A. 8 June 2011: He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's using you as a safety net in case he doesn't find a girl in florida.... (read in full...)
I want to meet her for the first time, but I don't know how to tell her the pictures I have been using online are fake.....
Q. I was playing around online and I met this girl (im a lesbian) on myspace and we really hit it off, and yes she is long distance, im in texas shes in new jersey. We moved to facebook and actually started dating long distance. We've been dating for ...
A. 8 June 2011: What did she say to you?
I don't think its so simple as saying she loved you only for the pictures... you lied to her this whole time. Don't you realise that most, if not all her trust in you would be gone?
She's probably wondering, "what... (read in full...)
We haven't had sex yet -- what's with him?
Q. Hiya, sorry if this is abit long, but i could really use peoples ideas on this issue, because its starting to affect me... i met my current boyfriend, in January this year, we went on a date together and i realised, we got on really well had ...
A. 7 June 2011: Well why don't you talk to him about it? If you feel that you're close enough to be intimate to each other but it just hasn't happened yet, you should be able to first talk about it before you take the step. I don't think it should happen when ... (read in full...)
If I use a vibrator does it mean I'm no longer a virgin?
Q. Ok, this might sound obseen but i ought too ask, ive recently brought a virating 80mm bullet with some lube! now im a 20 year old virgin, if i incert this into my vigina this shouldnt pop my "cherry" right? i get this must sound stupid but i dont ...
A. 7 June 2011: Don't worry, tearing your hymen does not equal loss of virginity. Technical loss of virginity is penis in vagina, but some may consider being intimate with someone (girl on girl) as a loss of virginity as well. It really depends on the context.... (read in full...)
What's the deal with slapping during sex?
Q. Hi I am curious to know why some men like to slap women around the face when having sex,do they have some sort of problem or are they violent types and like to dominate women do they care about the person they are hitting or is it just some sex...
A. 7 June 2011: Yeah, slapping the butt is OK, but the face? Nope. No one slaps my face unless they wanna be slapped back.... (read in full...)
Why can't I stop spying on my boyfriend's ex?
Q. I am a 20 year old beautiful woman with a great boyfriend to compliment me. But I have a dirty secret, I spy on his ex girlfriend. It really roots from her calling him and trying to see if we were still together when she got bored. Everytime she ...
A. 4 June 2011: My significant other was seeing someone for a few months last year, and he stopped seeing her in October. From what he told me, they were mainly just friends with benefits (he had known her for years prior), and that was clear from the start. But ... (read in full...)
Our relationship was built around drugs - now we are clean we don't know what to do.
Q. I have a very serious issue that has been on my mind for a long long time now, When me and my Boyfriend first got together for the first 2 years we both did Drugs together and then when he finally went to jail for 6 months and he got out we both ...
A. 4 June 2011: I think your relationship can last if you two can find another common ground. You did drugs together, and that was your common ground. It was an activity that you both enjoyed in the company of each other. You just have to find something else ... (read in full...)
We havent been able to see each other for ages because he is grounded and I think he is losing interest in me.....what should I do?
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for a year....we absolutely LOVED each other in the begining ..we were friends since we were 3 before we started dating, but now its been 1 month i havent seen him because he's grounded(15 more days till i can see him) ...
A. 3 June 2011: Yeah I agree with worriedbubble.. if he really loves you, the amount of time that you haven't seen him, should not make him lose interest. It should make him miss you even more.
But he is a teenager after all, and I have found that young men tend... (read in full...)
I want to meet her for the first time, but I don't know how to tell her the pictures I have been using online are fake.....
Q. I was playing around online and I met this girl (im a lesbian) on myspace and we really hit it off, and yes she is long distance, im in texas shes in new jersey. We moved to facebook and actually started dating long distance. We've been dating for ...
A. 3 June 2011: Hi there, I was in a similar situation a long time ago when I was younger. The person I was "dating" had used fake pictures, and I was under the impression that they were the person in the pics. I actually found out myself that they were not, by ... (read in full...)
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