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You may think that because I'm 13 - I don't know what love is, well I do, but I need help getting him back, please.

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Question - (11 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

well im 13 years old and im still in love with me ex boyfriend.

you may think that bc im 13 i dont know that love is, well i do. he's always on my mind, just hearing hus name makes me want to pass out, and so much more.

we used to go out. hes 1 year older than me in grade wise. and well hes waay more experienced than me. he was my first real bf.

we'd text and stuff and he would talk about how he wanted to kiss me. and i realllly wanted to kiss him too. we started doing little pecks on the lips but we both knew we wanted so much more. we went out twice but still no french kissing.

then he broke uo with me. and i think its bc he thought i was a prude. he liked me even when we were broken up, and i liked him too but i was just afriad that hed break my heart again.

its been 9 months since we've been seperated, and in that period he hasnt had a gf. i want him back!!! but now hes in the highschool and i wont seem him as much.

what should i do to get him back?!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008):

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love returns when it is ready sweetheart, even though it hurts now , just wait and concentrate on having fun with your friends and doing yur school wrk..then you'll get to g to high school yourself. You are not a prude so don't rush anything to prove otherwise...be a smart girl, the boys like that...do your best at school and prove to him that you dont need him and he may come back t yu one day...be patient.

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A female reader, Megaaan. United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2008):

Megaaan. agony auntI personally agree with you.

I beleive that there's no ages limit on love.

But also I think that as you two are young then it does make things different. I'm fourteen myself and i've found this year the hardest year of my life. On July 9th 2007 I attempted suicide by taking and overdose because I truely didn't beleive that I could last with out my boyfriend (well ex at this point). I was in hospital for a week and that truely made me see how important life was, even if I wasn't with my boyfriend. I went out with my girlfriends, I had a laugh, I spent time with my family and I was truely having the BEST time of my life. I ignored my boyfriend for two months and suddenly out of the blue he rang me up apologising for everything he did. This made me see that I was strong, I could stand up for myself and that not everythin evolves around boyfriends. We're back together now and have been in an amazing relationship for 9months now. So enjoy your life while you can and maybe he will realise how much he misses you. Good luck hun, live life. x

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