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*handy88
writes:Hi, i have been in a relationship for 5 years, he was my first everything and now i just dont know what to do, he doesnt seem to care anymore, this past week when i didnt call him it was 4 days till we talked, apparently according to him thats normal and there is nothing wrong with that? i support him in every way possible, listen to him and care for him when he's down, and i get nothing. I love him, but i just dont know if im in love with him anymore? he's pushed me to the point where im starting to think it will be best for me to let go. i thought i would spend the rest of my life with him, its breaking my heart. what do you think i should do? he's never cheated and would never lay a finger on me, but he just doesnt seem to care as much as i do. i would really like to hear from ppl who have been in this situation, and if you did move on, how did you cope? i dont have that many friends any more cz its just been the 2 of us which i regret now. Sorry that its a bit scrambled, i'm just trying to get everything thats in my head out. Thank you.x
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reader, Princess D.  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 hey, Heples, I couldnt have put that better. See, that space thing works wonders. Bt sometimes by the time the guy realize what a treasuse he had, someone else has already filled in. Shandy88 I would say let go, you don't deserve to be treated like that girl! let go, ask 4 space which ever is easier. Remember if it was meant to be it'll come back. if he doesn't come around, his lost! i rather you b free and feel a little pain than say with him and hurt greatly. GOD loves u girl!
GOD Bless!!all the best
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reader, Helples  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 Wow, I can say I have been in the same situation as you. The only difference is I was into my one year with him. He was exactly like yours. He seemed bored of me, he didn't show much affection especially not the way I did. He had a horrible attitude, whenever he was mad (which was constant for silly things) we could never talk about it. I would have to force him to talk to me about it. Sometimes it will work, other times, it wouldn't. It was frustrating. I had also lost the relationship I had with my friends- we use to be so close but now we're just "all right." Anyways, I left the relationship- even though it hurt me to do so. It would have hurt me more to stay in the relationship. This guy was my best friend before being my boyfriend. I was devastated. I was depressed for two months. I would constantly think of him, and my tears wouldn't stop. But eventually, things got better. He contacted me a lot throughout these two months, I ignored him though until I felt I was ready to talk to him. When we did talk, he realized how much I meant to him. He has changed since then. He was a whole new person. Right now, we're still dating.
Maybe yours will realize how much of a treasure you are. "You never know what you have until its gone."
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