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30-35,
anonymous
writes:At work this man use to look after me, he was older and use to flirt etc. At first I liked him. But i told him i didn't fancy him because people were talking and i get shy. At that point, this kind helpful man became two-faced and nasty. He tried getting me in trouble with my managers and would appear to be nice to my face but behind my back attempt to get me into trouble. He also embarrassed me in meetings and kept trying to put me down. He found out i was going on a date and lied so i would work with him. It got so bad, after numerous attempts to talk with him that we no longer work together on cases .We went to a party, got drunk, he put his hand forward to shake good bye, he then pulled me in kissed my cheek and hugged me. Yet he had previously complained about me asking for a hug at work. I didn't hug him back.Weeks after, there was tension hardly talking. Now he's going back to the old him who i fell for. He indirectly asks a question and i always answer it. When i don't he asks, "please," and i tell him. Now he always tries involving me in questions or trying to make me smile. But it is hard, i fancy him to this date and he has now fully separated from his wife. At the same time he was so backstabbing. What would you do?? Would you trust him? He knew i trusted him and he mis-used it so much yet i can't stop wanting him!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 September 2013):
 if he can turn on you that quickly once he could do it again....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2013): Whatever's behind his weird ups and downs complex, you should follow your gut and NOT trust him... He sounds very vindictive and proceeds to break you down when he doesn't get his own way?? So he was also married when he was treating you like s**t?? So that's two people he's treated like absolute cr**
This is not good behaviour from a man old enough to know MUCH better... Honesty he sounds unstable and if you were to ever get with him, he would kick you around and eventually dispose of you like rubbish? He knows you're a person though, you're young and emotional and vulnerable- he's using your feelings against you.,
You're worth more than this... Do you need any more evidence?
Fight the urge Hun :) xx
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reader, Makar  +, writes (15 September 2013):
 Well, he is so revengeful, I don't like that. What if it doesn't work out so well for you two, he will start to harass you again. You'd better be careful
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