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writes: Will you date someone with no teeth? I mean, i know hes not broke, he has 2 jobs in LA, he has Volkswagon car and can travel anytime he wants. Im just curious why he wont go dentist for it to be fixed. Lol Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2019): I would ask how he lost them and if he has ever thought about having them replaced/ dentures.
Maybe he just needs a little suggestion...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2019): No, i dont. Im filipina too, its not about how he looks like, but theres something not correct in there...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2019): Oh boy I think we need to slow down here and take a breath . People tends to judge so quickly . Sure he may have been an addict or in someFight club ....ORRRR he may have had a gum or dental condition that led to him losing his teeth. He may have been on a legitimate medication that led to the breakdown of his teeth. Who knows ... perhaps he is even in the healing stages of having the titanium rods placed for implants . Often these will be left in place for several months to integrate with the bone prior to the teeth being placed There’s a whole lot of possibilities here and only one way to find out , ask! If you like someone you try to get the facts before making a decisions Sure if it’s a matter of simply not caring then perhaps you’llWalk but possibly it’s deeper than that
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reader, N91 +, writes (11 March 2019):
Nope.
I don’t understand how somebody could not want teeth. That shows a clear lack of hygiene or a severe addiction to drugs at some point in his life. Either way it would be a no from me.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 March 2019):
Nope, I wouldn't date a guy who doesn't take care of himself.
I'd also wager he has been heavily into drugs at some point or still is.
My husband's oldest brother was married (his first wife) to a woman who was hooked on pain killers and would ACTUALLY get teeth pulled so she could be pain killers, when she couldn't find someone selling them. The BIL tried getting her help several times but ended up divorcing her after she sold things from the house to buy drugs.
It's rather disturbing for someone in their 30's to not have teeth.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (11 March 2019):
I wouldn’t date him if he could afford to fix them and didn’t care to. That said, it really is none of your business unless he asks you out or you are already dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2019): If you are already dating him ask him why he is not fixing his teeth. If you are not dating him then it is none of your business. If he asks you for a date tell him not till he fixes his teeth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2019): If he belongs to a fight-club or a gang, deals drugs, or likes to get into bar-fights; you might be messing with the wrong guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2019): I wouldn't date anyone who doesn't seriously care about dental-hygiene; can afford it, but won't somehow replace their lost teeth.
If we were together, and they lost them in an accident; and couldn't afford to replace them. I would help.
If he has a dental-plan, and disposable-income for expensive toys; and other less important things. Absolutely not! He has to chew and smile. Why wouldn't he care? How back-woodsy could he be? What kind of drugs could he be on? Meth?
If you can afford it, why wouldn't you replace visibly missing teeth?
Lets put it this way. I would if I were missing teeth too, and doing nothing about it.
How would you feel introducing your boyfriend with a toothless smile? If it would always embarrass you, don't. If you don't mind and you like him regardless; then do what pleases you.
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