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writes:I have a friend who gives off a lot of sexual energy and she is going to meet my new boyfriend soon. She has a sexy body (but looks ten years older than she is through too much sunbathing - miaow)! She flirts and sparkles and gets men drooling over her a lot. It drives me nuts. She goes around in skimpy night clothes when she stays and shows off her belly button ring. You can almost watch her as she positions herself in the most alluring draped position on the sofa. She will be with her boyfriend when we meet up but nevertheless I am worried because my boyfriend is flirty too. He loves me hugely but I find I get very angry when friends flirt with my man in an overtly sexual way. I don't mind at all when they joke and flirt mildly. I am not sure whether to develop the flu and cancel because I am afraid I will let myself down if I get jealous and angry about it. Either that or I face my demons and see how my man and she react to each other. Actually she has not always drawn admiration from past boyfriends of mine so I don't know why I should feel threatened. Anyway, I feel that the way she behaves is childish and annoying. In fact, perhaps I am wondering whether she is really a good friend, or a slightly immature, attention seeking type that I would be better off without. I know she has been tempted by other friend's husbands and tempted them before and I don't trust her.
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reader, tux  +, writes (1 April 2006):
 If she flirts and acts that way in front of your boyfriend, I would find it hard to even call her a friend. If your boyfriend falls victim to the flirts than he's no good. Life has temptations, but it doesn't mean you should purposely walk into them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): she sounds like a narcissist who needs the fix of eyes looking at her to make her feel special. If your man cheats he is not worth it, and if she attempts to with him get rid of her. flirting in a friendly manner is one thing but sexual lechery (from either sex) is not on. Make sure though that you are not a victim of your imagination and that what you see is real not just your insecurities manifesting. Stay calm when making judgements and desicions
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