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writes:Hi everyone!Over a year ago I started speaking to a young woman on a social website in Lithuania. I eventually met her a few times in Lithuania(as I was visiting the country to see friends. We went out to bars and restaurants to chat and socialize. I found her to be beautiful, bright, intelligent and great fun. We very much enjoyed each others company and she made my heart flutter. We would talk on the phone and send text messages to each other etc. Just before last Christmas, I went back to Lithuania to see her again and I told her via Skype(how unromantic!) that she had made my heart flutter and I had fallen in love with her. She was flattered, said I was sweet but nothing really came. I actually apologised and hoped that it would not come between us. We continued as friends chatting on Skype. Last week we chatted on Skype, and she told me she had a new boyfriend. I asked her about her new boyfriend and she told me he makes her heart flutter non-stop... When I heard this, my heart sank and I felt rotten and and depressed. In response to her, I said I had said many things but never did anything about it and regret no pursuing her further.I go back to Lithuania in a couple of months to see some friends again and would very much like to see her again; I would like to tell her I still have feelings for her, and regret not expressing them months ago. Is this the right thing to do or am I being selfish?
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reader, tony70 +, writes (20 May 2008):
tony70 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to add: Speaking to her last week, I did express that I was happy she had a boyfriend and hoped that he loved and cared for her. In no do way I want to do or say anything to cause her any problems or make her angry with me. I just want to tell her I regret not making my intentions clearer and not doing anything about it...Thank you for any advice
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