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*implegirl
writes:ok, I kinda had sex (well I'm a virgin or at least I think I am), my boyfriend and I tried to have sex. It hurt so bad but he didn't fully go all the way inside me but it did hurt. I went home and peed, afterwards when I wiped myself I saw small bits, very small bits of blood. Does that mean that I lost my virginity? Well we tried to use a condom but the damn thing wouldn't co-operate with us so we had tried the deed without one. He didn't cum but he was dripping of a clear fluid....... idk. Now I'm all worried because I haven't seen my period yet and and it's supposed to come by now. I am so worried, I feel so self-conscious meaning that my tummy feels weird, maybe my mind is playing with me. It did that before but I don't know. Am I pregnant or am I worrying too much?
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reader, im_a_dummy  +, writes (16 January 2009):
 i totally agree with emporessmystique. I am pregnant and i didnt start feeling sick or weird until like i was a month into it. so again, you didnt say how long ago this was, if its to late for the morning after pill, i would say wait till the end of the month b4 u get a test, or if you have a doc. appoinment commin up you can go see ur doc. u can also just take a test, but sometimes they show up negative if it hasnt been long enough. well mine did at least... i would just say wait about a week or so and take a test if still no period.
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reader, sickofme +, writes (16 January 2009):
Yes you have lost your virginity but let me tell you it will continue to hurt the next ten or so times and you might bleed more. It is possible you could be pregnant because theres something called pre cum wich is that clear fluid you were talking about but your chances of being pregnant are lower than if he were to cum inside you. So girl stop worrying just next time use a condom with some lube that will help and think about getting on birth control pills i did when i was 15 and it was the best desision i could make.
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