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writes:*OP's Original Title*OK so i had sex for the first time when i was 18 with my bf at the time. Well we were actually more on the drunk side and I do regret doing it. Anyways we did it for around 4/5 hours, we had lots of foreplay, lots of different positions and it ok. It just lasted forever and I either didn't feel him in me or 'i think' the deeper he was in it hurt. When we finished I realised I had bled Alot and i continued to bleed for around 2 days after. And i walked like a penguin for a day too cuz i was hurting afterwards (altho i think the reason for that may be because i had anal sex on my first time too) Well i was to scared to have sex for the longest time then did again a few month later (same guy) and it was the same thing, i still bled (not as much) and bled a little bit afterwards too and it still hurt the deeper he felt.I havent had sex since but went to get a smear test.When she inserted watever that thing is in me, I was in soo much pain, it hurt like a biatch and I bled afterwards, it wasnt much and it only lasted the one day.Is something wrong with me??or do you think if i have sex more it will eventually stop hurting and i'll stop bleeding?anyone else went through this...any help welcomed.Thanks for reading i appreciate it, XoxoX
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): My first time hurt too, but my partner was gentle and loving which made it ao much easier. I didn't bleed, but I know a lot of people that do, and it usually only lasts a day or two. You may have bled twice because when you had sex your hymen wasn't totally broken. This meanth that when you had your smear test it broke the rest of your hymen. I wouldn't worry about it and sex should get easier as you learn what positions are most comfortable for you. Remember to relax and take deep breaths though and that should ease a lot of the pain if you still experience any. Hope this helps a little.
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