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writes:ok so me and my husband broke up 9 months ago and for a long time we didnt speak much. Now we speak on a daily basis over text message. He states very clearly that "we will always be friends". He also flirts with me alot but gets very nervous if i flirt with him. My children would not have anything to do with his girlfriend until just recently. They decided they wanted their dad back so they spent some time with the 2 of them to see how they were together. Im very confused by what i hear. She dresses masculine, acts masculine...they dont hold hands or kiss and they act as though they are buddies, speaking of cars and fishing. It makes me very angry to know that i lost the man that i love for him to be with someone who is more like a "buddy" to him then a girlfriend... i want some advice on this situation, will they last?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): Your husband is trying to arrange a friendly divorce, he married you, he still likes you, but you have children to think about, so it's better if you remain friends. I don't know why you broke up, I don't know whose fault it was or if your marriage can be saved. But your husband has choosen somebody he feels comfortable with, she may be masculine to you, but she feels comfortable enough with him to share his hobbies and intrests. When going through a breakup, a good friend is worth there weight in gold, and that makes them very attractive because they have a good heart. Will they last, who knows, but you need to move on because it seems your husband has. He has found happiness, why don't you. If you still love him and want him back, well, you need to examine what caused you to break up.... No crystal balls babes, we can't see into the future and neither can you... Blessings.
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