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writes:i'm 17 a junior in high school. ok so i've liked this guy for about 3 years now, and over the years we're almost gone out many times but never acutally ended up happening. well just last week him and his girlfriend of 2 months broke up. me, him, and a couple of friends went to the mall like 3 days ago and at the mall he just hug me a lot and touch me a lot. it was so fun. i even sat on his lap. normally he's not that close to me but there he was. he even told me that he likes hugs and how come i dont give him hugs at school. i told him i didnt know he wanted it so now everyday at school i hug him. and well yesterday me, him, and some other friends went to a friends house to watch a scary movie. i say next to him and for the whole movie we held hands. we were basically on eachother cause of how close we were and our heads were leaning on eachother for most of the time. my one friend said that it looks like he likes me, but idk cause this happened so many times where it looks like he's interested but then ends up getting another girl. i just dont want to get my hopes up to high again. i'm just confused. i know he's been acting different and he does know i like him, but now i dont know what to do. this time i really want it to work out but i dont know how.
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reader, Sex_counsellor  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Firstly be careful that you are not on the rebound and that he has genuine feelings for you. I suggest that you face the difficult one and try and discus your feelings with him. I think that you are right not to get your hopes up on him. My advice would be to take things gentle and just enjoy your time as friends at the moment and get to know each other. If he has genuine feelings for you then there shouldn't be the risk of any other relationship breaking out.
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