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female
age
36-40,
*hezza
writes: My boyfriend and i have been together for 15 months and we moved in together a few months ago. We've never really argued. He let slip that hed been thinking of proposing to me but said he deff wouldn't propose Valentines but maybe in the next few months. He won't talk about it and if i go on about it i think he'll prolong it, do you think he said it to shut me up or hes gonna do it soon? It's driving me crazy....
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (11 February 2008):
I suggest you leave it, try to stop thinking about it. It may annoy him and put him off you if you do nag about it. Just drop it and carry on and if he proposes in a few days or if he proposes in a few months be happy with that x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): i think he just wants to surprise you or maybe he is saving up for the ring.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): Have you been nagging him about it? 15 months isn't that long, especially at your young ages. You shouldn't be worrying about marriage right now. Gte through college, build a career, then get married. I don't think you can really know someone completely from being with them just over a year. I know from experience. I have had a few long term relationships. I would wait and don't be worrying about marriage. It's not a good thing or romantic if he just felt as though he HAD to say it to "shut you up" as you said.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (11 February 2008):
It is hard to read somebody's mind.If he says a few months, then you will have to wait .In time , you will know.
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