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writes: My boyfriend and I have been talking for 8 months. He officially asked me to be his girlfriend around February and it was great then he broke up with me a month and a half later. 3 weeks went by i contacted him partially but soon gave up. one day after work he texted me wish it could go back to normal. from there we got back together and he told me i was the best thing thats happened to him and doesn't want to break up. well i broke up with him over petty reasons another month and half later. we got together that night but he was unsure of what he wanted after i did that. he said i need to prove i really didnt want to break up. about 4 days went by and i asked him what he wanted..he said he didn't know. i told him we cant be together until he figures out what he wants. for 2 weeks after that we hung out like a normal gf and bf would and he said we'll work on everything. well i kept trying and kept contact and he still didnt know what he wanted when i asked him 3 weeks later. ive stopped contact with him after those 3 weeks...its been 5 days and still no contact both ways. what should i do next? will he come back again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone for your care and support. I really do want to move on because if not i know ill just keep being disapointed by him. Is there a chance of him contacting me in the future he's done it twice in the past and if im gonna move on i need to cut all contact for good. And i forgot to mention we work at the same place:/ but im leaving for college this summer which is a really good thing i guess.
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reader, ARELI +, writes (10 July 2010):
please give up move on ull see diffrent in a few months like nothing happend his no intrest in u i am sorry move on ok take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe wont tell me hes done though..like i just told him to say it and ill leave him alone. he says he wishes he could give me an answer
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reader, xanthic +, writes (10 July 2010):
He's not interested in you any more, stop contacting him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondo i give up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionafter 5 days no contact i finally decided to text him. i just was casual question like how've you been ect..but after awhile he stopped responding. After that of course i got upset. I asked him why he cant ever talk to me anymore..no response. again asked what i did i was giving all this time and asked him to just tell me if hes done for good...still no response. after this i just gave up and hes NEVER not responded to me ever, this is a first. i poored my heart out to this boy with occasional breaks for almost a month, was completely honest with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): Tell him how you honestly feel, even if it takes all night. Then back up, and give him room to chew over it. Don't contact him anymore after that, you've said your peace. He'll let you know when he's ready...men like to retreat into a cave to figure things out.
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