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writes:I have been married for 27 years.He is the love of my life and my best friend.We have had a few bumps along the way but always pulled through.We have moved to a small town and things are going down hill.My husband is destroying this marriage by not telling me what is on his mind.I have begged for him to share his feelings and they are gaurded at best.I need him so badley to just say I love you more than anything and we Must work hard togather because this relationship is very important to me.He has skirted this for 3 years .He says I do love you but..........I have given up and feel if he won't start making me feel worth keeping that I need to get out.I am depressed and have had 2 mutual friends ask me if things are going o.k and I say of course because I have NEVER said amything to any friends about us.I guess my husband has been.This is such a betrayal of trust and he very well knows how I feel about this especially when he won't talk to me.I can't talk with him anymore about this and can't continue to try with out a reason.What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): What do you think, what is on his mind ,what he doesn't want to share with you? Do you have any particular thought?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): This is so familiar to me... I wonder ,if it's a very common thing or not.. I think maybe he really have nothing to say. Maybe he doesn't want to get in touch with his real feelings. My husband is doing the same, and the only thing what got something out of him, when we got into a huge fight. And something very painful came out from him,but later he denied the value of his statement, as he was ""very angry"". i still think, something was going on,, but I guess, maybe we have to make a choice, if we want to live in this fog,or not. They can't make this choice for us..
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