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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi all!i am kinda confused about my best buddy..he has a steady gal since past 5-6yrs..for whom he still buys gifts and takes her out and stuff..but does not talk to her as much as me..he even confessed this to me..he confides in me all that he does not even tell his childhood best friend..whom he treats like brother. Whether i am in town or out..whether he is in town or out..we have to kinda talk..min 2 hrs a day..max whole night say 9.30 to 7 in morning..that is once or twice a month though..soo wat is wrong wid him..or me..cox he never tries to meet me up..He confesses n confides in me from everything personal..to financial..to family related..i mean there is nothing i dont know..and nothing he would not say if i asked..then why he doesnt meet me up? does he love me? or are we just simply addicted to talk on phone and this is just his way to reduce stress?he keeps saying that compared to his gal i am very different and it is a feel good to talk to me..even when he is out wid frens or partying!i am cool wid being friends too..but am damn confused..and would like to be surer..guysssssss sos!! temme wat ya all think?!
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 He doesn't want you in his life, because he HAS told you a lot of things. There are some people who like someone who is uninvolved in their life really, someone who is like a free therapist, I believe you have been deemed to this position. I have a friend in which we have a mutual understanding, we talk about a lot of things, but we hardly hang out in person. Not that we don't like each other, it's just nice to have someone who isn't in 'the mix' of my everyday life, yet knows me well enough to give me sound advice and a shoulder to lean on when needed and vice versa.
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