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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend (age 27 i am 22) of 9mths has never come to my house, i stay at his sometimes and see him 1-2 times a week. he says its cos i live with my parents. my mum really wants to meet him, and every time i go to his she complains that she doesent even know him, but he says he will only come if there no there.what does this mean?before he used to say when the times right?the main reason that i want them to meet to make my life easyer, im not trying to put him under pressure.i have really strong feelings for him, i just wnat him to come round to mine meet my family and feel comfitable no pressure.i dont understand why he wont come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): I hadn't seen Friend Tom's answer until now, but I was thinking along exactly the same lines as him. Great minds (or is it fools?) think alike.
Your fella is probably thinking "Meet the parents? Whoooooaaaaahh! This is getting serious - I don't want to get serious - I just want a bonk two or three times a week!"
If the mountain won't come to Mohammed, take Mohammed to the mountain. Which is to say, take your mother round to his place and introduce them. It'll either make or break your relationship. If it breaks it he wasn't 'The One'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): "Meeting the folks" is a prelude to a commitment, hon. He does not want to make one. Dump this guy. He will never make a commitment to you. Trust me.
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