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Why is the girl I had a crush on so interested in hooking me up with someone? Is there more to it?

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Question - (7 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *erremy writes:

Ok had a crush on my female friend but she never gave us a chance even when i told her everything from my heart ,and then when she hooks up with a guy she tells me not to talk to her aagain.

so she gets back in contact with me after the break up and keeps asking why im not with other girls ? and asks when am i gonna take the time to see her again ?

whats she trying to get at ? i dont understand the female mind ? is she interested now but cant say it as its her fault we stopped talking.any girls can answer this ?

oh and shes like i want to hook you up..etc why would she be so concerneced about me hooking up. sure theres more to it ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009):

I'd say she likes you as a friend, that's why she wants to see you when she doesn't have a boyfriend -coz she enjoys your company. And that's why she wants you to hook up with another girl - because she cares about you and wants you to be happy.

but when she does have a boyfriend its tricky for her to see you in case he doesn't understand and gets jealous.

If you had a girlfriend would you be happy if she spent time with a male friend?

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