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writes: I can't cum when girlfriend is giving me blow job.i'm 15 and have been going out with my girlfriend for 6weeks now and we have started to have foreplay but for some reason we she gives me a blow job it takes ages for me to cum. why is this??
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reader, SwimGirl26380 +, writes (17 July 2006):
 I agree that you are too young to be performing any sexual acts.
I think one thing you might want to consider is that you just don't love her enough to be "in the moment" with her. Also, there may be certain fears that you may have about the situation that you need to consider. You don't necessarily have to cum every time in oral sex to enjoy the act.
If you enjoy being with her and spending time with her, that should be enough for now. I don't mean to sound all "adult-like", but your focus should be on school, friends, and your future. Worrying about sex should not be a worry or concern of someone your age. Best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): Well you are 15 and I am guessing she isn't too far from this age. You both are too young to be indulging in such an act.
Is it reasonable of you to expect some young girl to be some older, well "seasoned" woman who knows how to perfrom oral?
Being you are 15, then I will excuse your insensitivity as a lover.
When you masterbate, you are in control and you know what you like and what to do so yes, you can cum whenever you feel like. So comparing your mastered hand to some young and unaware girl is unfair and highly insensitive.
No girl at such a young age should be expected to peform like some porn star. No woman should be expected this either.
Having sex to get off will only leave you feeling like you do.
Sex is an intimate act between two people that will further instill their feelings and strengthen them as well as bond the two together. Sex with the right person should be something to explore and a time to learn about one another.
This isn't your desire.
Oral sex for the sole purpose of making you cum is not foreplay, it's full on sex.
Why don't you wait until you mature some more and better develop your view of women before having sex?
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