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writes: hi im 15 and used to go out with this boy the same age as me that i had a massive crush on. then he dumped me for some reason. i was really upset.but that was 7 months ago and i still cant stop thinking about him and i still wanna go back out with him, even though i havent even seen him for 7 months since we broke up.why have i still not got over him even though i havent seen him in 7 MONTHS!Why is it taking so long!?! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006): Hi, I went though this with my Boyfriend(of 3 years) last year he split up with me on my birthday! over nothing at all I had done exept his own Depression at the time he did this on what was suposed to be a really special night.
over a meal! it was one of the most toughest times that I ever had to deal with the only thing that pulled me though was my passion for Acting and the Theatre. I though myself into classes and college and really enjoyed it and my friends got me though! and the male attention and my family I built myself up so much and became so independant free spirted and truly happy when the tears where over! now I know your situations very diffrent to mine but it doesent mean for one minute that you cant let your independent spirit rise up and feel better and newer then you felt in a long time,After all that time when I was happy with myself my ex B.F wanted me back I said no at first but then he won me over but I diddnt go back cos I needed him I went back keeping my options open because I realised nothing was forever I it diddnt matter co's I had me a great life with or without him and I still have to this day Listen to P.C.Ds "I dont need a man" Take care
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (7 October 2006):
 Hey,
Getting over someone is about more than time. If you constantly think about someone and still want to go back out with them, despite not seeing them for months, then you're not making it easy for yourself to move on.
You need to be getting out and having some fun with your friends and family, doing things you enjoy that will take your mind off this guy.
Do you think he will have been thinking about you over these months?? My guess is probably not, so try not to keep thinking about him.
In those seven months you might have met a hundred boys who are loads better than this original guy and you'd never know it cos you're too focussed on this other one. Wake up! You'll miss the great ones if you don't take a chance with your life and have some fun.
My other advice to you would be to email or write down (to yourself) how you feel about this guy. Then once you've sealed the envelope or clicked send, file it away and move on. Writing it down will help get the feelings out - honest!
Good luck!
Anon2907
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