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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex split up last year and stopped talking then I decided to get back in touch with him. WWe were speaking and seein eachother now and again. Nothing had changed it was just like how things used to be when we were a couple. I then kept seeing pictures of him on the internet with other girls so I told him to delete my number and that was it I never heard of him and 2 weeks later I heard he had a girlfriend! I cannot seem to get over the fact that he is with someone new and it seems to me as he is treating her better and its making me think why wasn't he like that with me what did I do wrong?? My ex cheated on me and was out every weekend he would never take me out with him it was like I was hidden away but his new girlfriend goes everywhere with him! I was faithfull and very loyal to my ex so I don't understand why he is treating her better! I wish I didn't care but I can't stop thinking about it please help!!x
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 January 2014):
 His behavior towards YOU is not about YOU and it's not what you did or did not do.
It's not personal. It's a very hard thing to accept but how he behaves and treats you is a reflection of him not you.
go full no contact.. no calls, no texts, no stalking on facebook block him totally.
worrying about what he did or is doing is only going to make you crazy.
I suggest you get a copy of the book "A fine Romance" by dr. Judith Sills. IT was my dating bible.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 January 2014):
If there is one thing people do on Facebook, it's make their life seem better than it really is. Stop assuming something you couldn't possibly know and you'll be okay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2014): You don't actually know he treats her better, you're just assuming. Trust me, if he cheated on you then got with her that quickly, he's not treating her better. Just be grateful that she's the one stuck with him and not you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2014): You don't know how's he's treating her.
You can't know. You're not there with them 24/7.
Either you rubbed each other the wrong way, which doesn't happen with her, or he's buying time until his true colours surface.
Either way; focus on you and your own life.
You won't get any closure from looking at him.
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