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Why is he putting so much effort into getting a rise out of me?

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Question - (12 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

SO here's a tough one:

A month ago, the guy I was seeing (for two months) told me he started talking to his ex. After he told me that, I never responded- like with anger or sadness... nothing. I didn't want to feed his ego and I was really upset. I liked getting to know him and from what I was seeing so far, I liked him. So then a week later, he deleted me on facebook (which I thought wasn't necessary and a bit extreme since I didn't do anything to him nor did I constantly write on his wall). A week after that, he deleted my friends off of facebook (two mutual friends, obviously closer to me). Then those friends ran into him at our hangout and he totally ignored them. He knew they were there and he didn't say hi. The next day, the very next day, he said hi how are you to them while passing! My friend didn't say anything and he gave this look, llike ohh too good to say hi back.

Anyway, I don't really know what he's trying to do here. He's acting immature and he's putting in a lot of effort to try to get a rise out of me, which I don't understand since he ended things with me. Help!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 August 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntThis isn't so tough. He's not interested. I don't think he's trying to get a rise out of you. Ignore and move on.

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