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writes:What is the role of the vagina in cunnilingus? My wife has taught me the techniques that give her pleasure in oral sex. However I have always been puzzled by the fact that she seems to get no particular pleasure from me insertng my tongue in her vagina (which I like to do!).
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reader, jay27 +, writes (10 June 2008):
jay27 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMany thanks for the replies, folks. I will try the stiff tongue on the vaginal opening---makes sense since that's where the most sensitive part is. And don't worry about the "bit that gives you pleasure"---the clit gets plenty of attention. Anyway from the two female replies I deduce that my wife's response to tongue penetration is pretty much the same as that of other women. Another step in my continuing education about the wondrous female genitalia---so mysterious and tantalizing compared to the junk we guys carry around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): I am not bothered by it either, the vagina is way less sensitive than the clitoris, when a tongue is in there I can hardly even feel it! We want to be licked on the bit that makes us come :-)
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 That's a question that I'll have to ask my next sexual partner!
I'm not particularly stuck on pushing my tongue right in, but I do like to use a stiff tongue on the entrance of the hole. Maybe not a "sweet spot" but seems to have some kind of feeling.
Pushing your nose right in also gets a response, but I think that's because the mouth comes to rest on the clitoris!
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reader, Tremor +, writes (10 June 2008):
 I've never found that to be particularly exciting either, and I've narrowed it down to a few reasons.
A man's tongue, while a wonderful thing, does not tend to be long enough to reach any of the real sweet spots in the vagina. It also doesn't put a lot of pressure anywhere, and sometimes, pressure is a good thing.
It could also be a question of texture - both the tongue and the vagina are of a similar texture, so there will be less friction when you put your tongue in there, as opposed to say, your fingers or your penis.
Another slightly awkward thing I have encountered is that when a man tries to get his tongue all the way in there, his teeth can tend to hit sensitive places if he's not careful.
Now I'm not saying putting your tongue in there is a /bad/ thing - it's not, and if you like to do it, by all means do it, because it still feels pretty good. But the outer areas of a woman's vagina do tend to be more responsive to the feel of a tongue than further in.
There are just my theories though - everyone has their preferences, and it could just be that your wife doesn't like it particularly. Best thing you can do is ask her about it.
Hope this helps. Good luck to you.
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