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anonymous
writes: My husband often takes his penis out to squeeze it himself, right when he is cuming... could that mean that my vagina is not tight enough to give him a pleasurable enough orgasm, and he is getting it with his hands? We are both able to orgasm from each other without hand assistance, but he has said in the past that I'm not that tight down there. (My gyno says I'm "average"). My husband also seems to be of average length/girth, from what I've read about male averageness.
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reader, jass +, writes (3 July 2011):
I totally agree with quantum modules, there is nothing wrong with it, an also doesn't have to do anything with his size or ur size, it's only a matter of pleasure only men can feel this beautiful feeling while cumming at that point of time, may be he like the feeling with his hand more, it's very much normal there's nothing to worry, enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): im the original poster...actually, i just asked him... he said its from masturbating a lot... he said that it wouldn't matter how tight i was, that no woman could be as tight as how he gets it with his hand... *shaking my head at the male species right now*
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reader, YouWish +, writes (3 July 2011):
You're all overlook the fact that he might be used to masturbating so often that it's the only way he can go all the way. Wouldn't matter if she were tight as a Pixy Stick..he'd still need his hand.
She could do enough Kegels to crack walnuts and he'd still need his hand. The Kegels are for HER orgasm, not his. She doesn't need anal to get him off. He could be too used to rubbing one off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2011):
Maybe he wants to watch himself cum on you instead of in you.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (2 July 2011):
i would ask him it,s the only way you will find out
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (2 July 2011):
do your kegal exercises everyday to improve things. maybe he just likes seeing his semen, or do you think he might be taking his penis out and squeezing it to try to stop himself cumming? could he be worried about you becoming pregnant? you really should ask HIM why he does it - after all if you are intimate enough to be having sex, then you should be intimate enough to be able to talk about itx
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