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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a close female friend--I'll call her "Anne"--whom I've known for about two years. Anne and I get along very well in most regards. Since it's rare for me to find a girl with similar interests, I've forgiven her things in the past that would certainly have ended my friendship with anyone else.I hate it when girls get labeled as "sluts" so I'll put it this way: Anne is extremely fond of sex with multiple partners and no commitment. Guys or girls, it doesn't matter; she's even come on to ME in the past. If we go to a concert, invariably she's hitting on the band afterwards. Ironically, Anne hates being called a groupie or anything similar. My problem is this--any time I am dating someone, Anne invariably tries to seduce HIM as well. This happened with my last boyfriend; Anne got drunk and came on to him one night at a house party I didn't attend. Nothing happened, not least because he didn't want anything to do with someone he and all our friends considered "easy." In fact, I only found out about it because he told me. Needless to say, Anne and I didn't speak for several months because of it. Eventually I forgave her (the fact that he and I had broken up anyway didn't hurt). Now I'm seeing someone else and guess what, she's at it again. My new guy has sworn up and down that he wants nothing to do with her, and again, I believe him. I trust him--I just don't trust her. Is there anything I can do to solve or get past this issue short of ending my friendship with her? Her disrespect for my relationships doesn't seem to be a one-time thing. And oddly enough, she met both of these guys before I did and didn't show any romantic interest until they and I dated. I don't get it...please help =/
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 I had a friend (so-called) just the like 'anne'. She is jealous of you. She would sleep with guys I was interested in, but I made them wait. Unfortunately some guys just want a quick fumble and she never saw them again, yet I didnt put out and wanted more. So in a way she helped sort the wheat from the chaff. I dumped her and moved on and found a decent guy and married him. She's still sleeping around and single at 44 and a big girl, Im slim and 40 and happily married with three beautiful kids x
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reader, Faye(L)Liam +, writes (25 September 2008):
because she is jealous ! your pretty and shes not your smart she dumb she jealous of you babe,
ditch her!
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