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anonymous
writes:My ex-boyfriend told me to bear with him if he freaked out in our relationship because he has never been treated well by a girl (his ex-fiancee went abroad with another man who it then turns out she was sleeping with whilst she was with my ex), so why did he start treating me badly and seem to be provoking me to be nasty to him and then dump me? I don't understand - I treated him so well which is what he wanted!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 My guess is that he wants you to break up with him, becuase he does not have the guts to do it himself. This way, he gets to blame you for his drama. Either way, he sounds like damaged goods, at least emotionally. He is making you pay for the sins of his past lover, and there is no future for a relationship that starts off this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007): if your ex boyfriend has been hurt in the past, then it would seem to me that he is scared of getting close to you and being hurt again. when he starts to become nasty to you i would presume that it is because he is feeling scared of being hurt again. but he should not be doing that to you and taking it out on you what happened in his past. so do not put up with any abuse. he may need to have some counselling to sort himself out, but only he is the one that can sort himself out and thats if he wants to. there are plenty of other people in this world that have been cheated on but they do not go and treat their next partner like dirt.
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