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writes: hi, i go to the park every week with my sister and we met some boys there and we got to know them. we have all now been going to the park together every week for a year. recently the one i fancied asked me out and i said yes. but he said "lets keep it a secret from everyone else at the park tho, lets only tell our mates from our own school". (we go to different schools). I dont really understand, is he ashamed of me cos he doesnt wanna tell his mates at the park, only his mates at school that i have never met before?i'm confused! what should i do and what do you think about the whole thing?oh yer! i dont know how he can be ashamed of me tho cos he wants me to meet up with him and his mates from his school soon so is he ashamed of me? cos he does want me to meet them? Reply to this Question
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Maybe he is just shy and knows some of them will tease him if they all know about it - or perhaps there is another reason? Maybe he is seeing someone from the park and does'nt want her to know? Sounds suspicious, but sometimes you just don't know! Take your time and don't do anything you don't think is wise. Look after yourself, chick!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2006): Well, you have known him a long time, and you also know his mother, you say he's nice, so maybe you don't have anything to worry about.
However, I still wouldn't agree to meet all his friends WITHOUT letting your mother, and his mother know FIRST. HE may be trustworthy, but what about the other schoolfriends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2006): hey i'm the person who asked this question!!!!!!!! we have been mates for ages and he is really nice and i know his mum so i really dont think he would dare do anything to hurt me cos he knows his mum would find out lol! so do u think i still have something to worry about?also i am 14. is he ashamed of me cos he doesnt want anyone knowing about us?
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reader, bikiniilove_xX +, writes (25 June 2006):
dumpp him any guy who doesnt want people to know your going out is an idiot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): I'm wondering what your age is. Sometimes boys and girls feel very awkard about "going out". The other thing is that if he doesn't want your friends at the park to know, but only wants to tell his mates at the school he goes to, sounds like something you should be VERY CAUTIOUS about.
I really don't want to alarm you, -and his intentions could be perfectly innocent but meeting these mates you've never seen before really sounds risky to me. Meet where? coffee shop or movie? It is possible you could find yourself in a very difficult situation. I'd be more concerned about THAT than wondering if he's ashamed of you!!
I strongly urge you to talk to your parents, or school counsellor about this before you agree to the kind of meeting he has in mind. SERIOUSLY. Please do talk to an adult, FIRST!
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