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anonymous
writes:Hey there,Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 9 months now, and already it's been a very rocky relationship. It's got to the stage now where we argue amost of the time, and it makes us both dislike each other a lot but when we aren't arguing we are very very in love. it's so strange. I don't know whether to end the relationship because I do love him so much but all of the arguing is getting me down.We've tried talking about our problems but we are ok for one or two days then end up arguing again.I'm quite worried about being single and not meeting someone else I love as muchhelp!!!xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): its simply ok to argue. arguing helps for both of you to understand your differences. If you are arguing too much to a point where it is only causing you stress and frustration to the point where it affects other aspects of your life, it is best that you leave the relationship. Arguing can be mainly because of the numerous differences you have between each other. it can be either ethics, morals, race, cultural differences, etc. But the key to resolving arguments and to reduce the amount of arguments is to communicate. In a relationship the key aspects are love, devotion, communication. With these, you are bound to have less arguments.
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reader, popo  +, writes (13 January 2009):
ive been there before. what you are going through is a power struggle. it happens just before the relationship gets stronger. both of you are scared to be vulnerable. read about it on google and you will understand why you are in that situation...it means the relationship is growing froom the honeymoon phase
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