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writes:Hi all. Please advise. I.ve beem with my bf for a few months,and have found that we are both becoming more and more sexually jealous and posseive about each other. It,s eating me up. Whem we have sex,he tells me not to give myself to any other man, i too don,t like the thought of him with someone else, He tells me tn be good if i.m going away for a few days, he get,s jealous if i talk to a guy,or girl sometimes. I get jealous,axd want to know where he is alot of the time,then when we go a couple of days without speaking on the phone, i.m racked with jealousy,and wondering what he,s doing. He manages to hide his jealousy and possesivness more than I do,but it,s literally killing me,and it,s eating away at the both of us. Like now, i.m away for a few days staying with family,and I called him last night. The conversation was brief.,and i started thinking he,s with someone. why are we like this with each other? We even try to make each other jealous sometimes. It,s horrid. Plz help. Ps. All this seems to be happening the closer we get emotionally,and the more attached.Thanx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Sexless in the uk. Thank you for taking the time to answer me. yes, I think you are quite right in saying we both do things to sabotage the relationship. Not sure I can brooch the subjects of couples counselling at this early stage though - as we have only been together for around 4 months, and I think it may just frighten m off!! I'm going to try hard to work on side of it - but it is gut wrenchingly difficult, as i have huge trust issues, and it seems he has to . I feel closer and closer to him everytime we see each other, and do not want to give my heart to him if he is going to break it. iit seems we are breaking each others hearts.l I think I will go to counselling alone initially, and work on my own issues and see what happens from there. xx
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