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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Heyaits been something like 3 1/2 years since i broke up with my ex, mary, i have a gf of 2 years who i adore to bits and shes treated me the best a girl ever has so far - no physical abuse, no cheating,shes lazy but she makes me happyeven though im happy, why do i have days where i miss my ex's company? my ex was my first proper and real love, i beleive it was too early for us to meet and we should have met later in life when she had gotten all her erotic desires fufiled (she webcammed and did cybersex with other people and thats why we split) even still she fufiled one of my fetishes - reheads natural, she was the best lay i ever had as well exploring, exciting she knew how to turn you on.she would often send me naughty pictures etc and i loved the feel of her skin against mine and her pert breasts, her skinny body and gorgeous green temptress eyes. we argued quite a lot though and she kept lying and messing me around, so it ended rather violently (not physical violence mind you) just why do i have VERY RARE days where i miss her terribly? it saddens me that after all this time, i still do, i would have thought i would have fergotten her by now..is it because my fetish for redheads reminds me of her? - is this longing to be with my ex for a day sleeping, sex spending time together normal? if not how can i fix it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): Dude, you are way too focused on sex, fetishes and good "lays". Perhaps you are not ready for a serious relationship, because real relationships are about much, much more than just sex. Just stop thinking about relationships and start screwing around, sounds like more along the lines of what suits you right now.And, I'm sorry to tell you this, but I fear that your ex was just not that into you; otherwise she would not have had cybersex with other people. So forget about her, she did not like you enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): You miss your ex because she was a part of your life and now things are changing for you. Maybe you're not that kind of person who is getting used to changes that easily or it could be that you're not totally over her, only you'll be able to answer this one :)
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