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writes:Im 28, and only ever had 1 girlfriend in my life and that was 5 years ago! I'm really starting to get depressed and embarrassed about the situation and feel under pressure to get a girlfriend because I find it so difficult to aproach girls as it has been so long. Can anyone give me some advice on this?
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reader, Keithym +, writes (14 October 2006):
Keithym is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your sweet answers girls
Keith x
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reader, onceuponatime +, writes (10 October 2006):
Hi, Im sorry to hear that as you seem like a sensitive and genuine person.
If you find it difficult to approach girls maybe you should try speaking to more on a more day to day basis. I know this sounds simple but maybe small steps at first are whats needed to boost your confidence. Try not to think of it at first as 'approaching' them.Maybe just been friendly. Say the girl on the checkout at the supermarket.Or a lady at work. Just small conversations at first just to get you used to speaking to women. As you do this and get more confidence, you will relax more in strangers company and find it easier to strike up conversations. No girl likes sleazy men, but everyone remembers a friendly one. Relax and remember to ask lots of open ended questions. And listen to what the lady says. Let her do most of the talking. Try to not to feel under pressure something will come along out of nowhere as long as you stay genuine, sensitive and caring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): well i dont feel you need to prove yourself to others to get a girlfrind when it happens it will haven no point worrying about it just enjoy what you do and things will come into place for you love lyndsey
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