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writes: Sometimes I feel myself getting scared when my bf talks about the future with me. It seems like he's picturing me in his future, which I think is great, but how about if we aren't together for that long? I feel like I don't wnat him to get his hopes up about us being together and I just feel a little weird when he makes statements like that--am I taking it too seriously? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2005): Before you run away think about why it scares you first!
If its because you don't really see a future for you both and your just in it for the moment and having fun then either ask him to slow down to take the pressure off or let him go to save you both future hurt.
However if its because you can see that it could go somewhere and your worried about getting involved because your actually scared of losing it then sit down and explain it to him. Tell him your worries so that he knows how you feel, that you want him and hopefully you will both concentrate more on having a great 'present' then worrying about the 'future'
Hope this helps, good luck
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reader, Monk +, writes (1 December 2005):
Run away. No, you're not taking it too seriously. Run before he gets too deep into the marriage stuff. Then you'll feel even worse when you dump him. A slap in the face is better than being crushed by a boulder. Do him a favor.
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