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*ineire
writes:I have this strange repetitive pattern and I'm trying to make sense of it..Basically, I tend to start fancying a man, am too shy to approach them but i think about them for ages… then after a time the desire goes away..Can you explain a rational for this repetitive behaviour?
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reader, aineire +, writes (9 May 2015):
aineire is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you
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reader, aineire +, writes (9 May 2015):
aineire is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you for your response… i did a lot of soul searching the last few hours and believe ive uncovered that I have a fear of receiving love, which has basically held me back for years having a relationship with men that i did fancy and were interested in me but the fear of receiving love stopped me..
DO you think this makes sense?
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (8 May 2015):
Simple...If you are shy too talk to someone, you will lose interest...why?? Because you have convinced yourself that you can never have them. So, why hold on to something you cannot have? In your mind anyway.
I bet you could have them...but first you have to say "Hi" :)
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