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writes: I am a 23 year old female as i have never been in a relationship before as all i have has is a few one night stands but not anyone who has liked me for me probably. I have been hurt over and over again as i throught i was in love with this guy who waz 2 years younger than me as i throught that that he was different from other guys i throught he treated me with respect but we know each other on and off for 3 years as thats the longest i have known a guy for. He know how i feelt bout him but he said he was'nt ready for a relationship so i respected but there was that chemistry between us so i just carried on being his friend for 3 years on and off then after 3 years of knowing each other on and off i slept with him on 2 occasions as in time i realised that he just was using me and i realized i wasted me time and energy on him as i realised i did'nt love him the feelings had all gone. From this day i have been single for 10 months now i aint had one night stands why is it that i always end up with the wrong guys i feel that there is something wrong with me like im not material girlfriend for anyone i sometimes feel that im gonna be left on the self for the rest of me life just whats wrong with.Please helpLorraine x
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 February 2006):
 You kind of answer your own question here. I dont think the problem is with you as a person at all. You say that you 'always end up with the wrong guys' which kind of indicates that if there is a problem then it's with the type of guy you look for.
I think the solution here might be to have a long hard think about what you are looking for in a partner. Take a piece of paper and write it down if necessary to help concretise your thoughts. Wait until you find the guy that is best for you and then put your all into getting that guy.
I hope this helps because from where I am sitting you seem to be a really genuine person who deserves to find a nice guy.
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