A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: there was lot of guys i have likes from council houses but they seem treated me very badly and i am nice to them i am not not from council house area.but they guys i have like are they insulted and be little treated me badly,hurted intentionly some don,t want even to be seen.why are they like to me.they hurted me so much i end up in counselling for years i mostly went to school with boys and girls from council estate i have NEVER meet a nice person from a council estatei training in sport with them and went to school with them.is there some thing wrong with me that pick on me and bully me.or is it my back ground because i am NOT from council house estate.i am shy and quiet person with very low self esteem and i am afraid of some of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): why, because thy are jealous, it may not seem so, but to them you are privileged and have what they have been wanting most of their life. You need to take an inventory of who your freinds really are, and find a new group to hand out with. At 16 I was where you seem to be, not confident in myself and as a result hanging with a crowd below my social status. They were into drugs, and not going anywhere except into blue collar jobs (which years later has been confirmed by facebook!)- I found other kids in school that were nice, and started doing activities with them, then taking the same classes and getting plugged into their network. at nearly 50, those people are STILL some of my best freinds- we don't see each other very often, but when we do the years seem like days. Give it a try, sounds like you got little to loose.
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