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Why did it hurt when we had sex?

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Question - (2 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

When I have sex and he thrust in hard it hurts really bad. I know that this can happen when he my hit the uterus or the cervix. But I have had a hysterectomy so why is this happening?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008):

Did you have a total or a sub-total hysterectomy? If it was a sub-total then you still have your cervix. I don't know how removing just the uterus effects the placement of the cervix, but if you still have it then he could hit it and cause pain. The vagina also goes past the cervix. The total depth differs in woman and I don't know how deep the average vagina is. I suppose if he is much bigger than average then he could hit the end of the vagianl canal.

The angle of penetration is also important. If he is angling his penis toward your front then he could be putting pressure on your bladder. That will hurt a lot, as my wife can attest. I have to be careful with some positions because of that. That can also help cause a UTI.

If none of these then you need to ask your GYN.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008):

perhaps you are not lubricated enough - has he taken time with foreplay?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (2 September 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntIt's probably a good question to ask your doctor. Maybe he hit some scar tissue and that caused the pain, maybe there's a hidden infection of the pelvis or bladder? I don't know, it's all speculation here, the only one who could really tell you is the doctor.

Good luck!

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