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Why did I get back with the jerk who even asked my best friend out?

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Question - (11 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

well i had a boyfriend and he started acting like a jerk and i dont know why he was so sweet and nice and he kept getting mad at me so i ended it and 1 day later he asked out my best friend!! i mean what kind of boy would do that and everyone was mad at him i was to but i still had feelings for him....... later on he wanted me back... only... because no one else did..... and i was soooo stupid to take him back...... does that make me a bad person and now i think did i make the right choice to take him back?

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (11 August 2008):

No, you're not a bad person! No, I don't think you made the right choice to take him back either. But, it's a learning experience! Think about it...what kind of person would act like a jerk to you and once you end it they ask out your best friend? A jerk! Going on here to ask if you made the right choice is just because you want an affirmation that he is a bad guy that doesn't deserve you, you know that. I think you wanted to give him another chance because you know that he can be "good" and you still care about him. It's human nature--we always want to see the good and hope it will be there. But he let his true colors show, which proved that he's VERY immature and a jackass. Trust me, they don't change...at least not while you're still in the picture, and they're definitely not worth waiting for when you can do so much better.

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