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Why did he say he wanted to see me but then act rude when he did see me?

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Question - (2 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

there is this guy who i am really confused about. Please help me!

Firstly, I really like him. But thing is, I'm not sure if he also likes me...we talk online a lot and a few days ago (online) I told him i wanted to meet up with him and a few other friends I hadn't seen in a while. He then replied that he just wanted to see me!!! So yesterday I happened to be visiting the school that he goes to, to see my friends (and him, of course!). However, even though he was always friendly online (I hadn't seem him for 3 years before yesterday!), he was quite rude and ignored me throughout the day. he kept staring at me though. But everytime i tried to talk to him, he muttered something like "i'm late for...got to go, sorry" and just 'ran' away!!!! I don't know what to do! And I tried talking to him online today, and he hasn't replied for an hour! Does he like me or not???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010):

he might have social anxiety. I went through a very similar thing as that guy. I was too afraid of all the people around to open my mouth and express any thought or emotion. in my case, no rudeness was intended. If you're willing to relate to someone who isn't completely normal, I recommend talking to him in less stressful situations at first. The more attractive a girl is, the scarier she is to talk to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010):

hmm.. u do the same.. ignore him.. and see what he does.. dont initiate talking to him.. if he writes to u then ask him why he was acting the way he was.. and see what he says. if he's rude to u.. dont talk to him.. at all.. find other guys to talk to...

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