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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My fiance and i have just recently started to seriously mess around. He has been fingering me and eating me out. So far i havent reached an orgasm and obviously he has noticed this and it bothers him.i dont want him to think anything is wrong with him, cause theres not. i just want to know whats wrong with me and why i cant have an orgasm from thisplease help me
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reader, Midge  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Actually for many woman that is normal. Woman dont have orgasms as much as men, and most woman find it much harder to reach climax. So there is nothing wrong with you!
You are probably in the majority, who find it REALLY difficult to have an orgasm from oral sex.
Unfortunately there isnt a cure for it, and there is nothing that he is doing wrong.
Men on the other hand can have orgasms from oral sex very easy in most cases. Its just our makeup I'm affraid!
Explain to your boyfriend that although you enjoy it, it is normal for woman not to be able to climax from oral sex. There are plenty other ways of him satisfying you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): Some people just don't reach their peak from oral sex, theres nothing wrong with you, at first me and my partner were the same and we just used oral sex as a form of foreplay. I used to get turned on and insist that i wanted him to be inside me so we could orgasm together. We're very open with each other and feel comfortable talking about what each of us enjoy. Now we know each other so well, its difficult not to orgasm when he gives me oral sex. It just takes some getting to know each other and experimenting. Take a night out, make sure your comfortable, relaxed and uninterupted and just experiment with each other.
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