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30-35,
*el_h_90
writes:i am in a great relationship with my boyfriend..however when we have sex it's great it feels so good, however i cannot seem to cum ever!i've tried so many different things its unbelievable.i get moist when he plays with me and when we have sex however do not cum. i'm 19 years old do u think im too young still or theres something wrong.can someone help me please and advise something. Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (21 October 2009):
 Allow me to totally agree with "satindesire" that female cumming, also known as "squirting," is actually rare and unnecessary to female orgasm. However, as a man who has for more than 45 years been in intimate proximity to a woman's vulva during their orgasms (typically during cunnilingus), I've usually been aware of and tasted at least a minimal release of fluid being emitted.
But it's nothing like a squirt. I know that it is in addition to the release of natural lubricant, as it appears from the urethra rather than the vagina, and only during a very intense orgasm with most women. In addition to the rapid contractions, throbbing, and other sensations well-described, you may feel a false need to urinate as you near orgasm. You will learn to ignore this, as it is usually just a natural sensation leading you to release (thereby climax). At that point, just let go and enjoy.
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reader, mel_h_90 +, writes (20 October 2009):
mel_h_90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes ive had some of those sensations, i think it's just im not trying for long enough. so up to now i know i can orgasm however when i have an orgasm do i need to cum aswell because i have never done that.
thank you for replying
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male
reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 October 2009):
Well I think that oral stimulation (cunnilingus) would solve this issue if he learns how to do it.
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reader, mel_h_90 +, writes (15 October 2009):
mel_h_90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thanks for answering me..
yes i do know were my clitoris is. i sometimes masturbate and i use toys sometimes before having sex with my boyfriend honestly i think ive tried everything i just dont know what else to do. i dont know weather ive had an orgasm however it feels good just dont know whether i have...
could you help with that information?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 October 2009):
Well "satindesire" gets to the point and always offers great advice, but I'll cut closer to the chase here. Your boyfriend needs to learn a lot more about satisfying a woman, regardless of age. There is a tremendous amount of information about inducing female orgasm in this Web site's archives.
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