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Why can't he just message me? Does he want to be my friend or not?

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Question - (6 March 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2016)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

whAt do you do when someone who u were close with and told them stuff that you haven't told snyone because you trust them tells u their partner is annoyed with the stuff That has been sent . i haven't sent him messages in months as he told me to lay low so I did , but the other day he sent a message to a mutal friend to send to me ... I don't get why after so long he can't send them to me . I' don't know if he wants to be my friend or what .. Any help is appreciated

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2016):

you just need to stop interfering in their relationship leave them alone and let them be happy. he doesnt want to be your friend if he did he would of been the one contacting you not the mutual friend. him and his girlfriend want you out of their life. get out of their life before they get the police involved because you are being a stalker.

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A female reader, emontez12 United States +, writes (6 March 2016):

i personally feel if it seems complicated to just stay away from it. its only gonna take up a lot of your energy you need for more important matters in your life. plus you clearly know where you are in your feelings and the fact that the other person might not be on the same page as you means you should maybe just take a step back and put your focus to something more fulfilling and rewarding. im sure your frend likes you but he is clearly somewhere you don't want to be. just remember the good talks and move on :)

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