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writes:Hi. I have an amazing boyfriend of 5 months, but I keep constantly testing him to see if he is really in love with me or not. I am about to graduate from college and I know that will put us in two different places, and I am terrified of breaking up because I am so in love with him. Is this normal? How can I make myself enjoy the time we have now...instead of freaking out about the future? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): I have a girlfriend who is constantly testing me and much like you I am in college. It is frustrating because I really do love her but every time I "fail" a test I feel like shit, I really can't handle this much longer. Every time I fail a test and she refuses to talk about our problems or communicate with me I feel like she doesn't love me, and its my fault. Just the fact your boyfriend wants to me with you and have a relationship past college is proof alone he loves you.
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reader, soldierred +, writes (5 February 2008):
 You are afraid of where it is going! The best advise I can give you is to just relax about it and go with the flow. Make plans for the future and live for today if it does not work then it was not meant to be. I recently went through this situation I am in the military and freaked out about reenlisting. My husband is also in and we are separated right now I asked him a million and one times if he supports my career decisions and explained the million and one questions in my head. Before you put yourself in that much headache just relax and go with the flow. I promise it will all work out for the best.
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