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writes:Long story short:Just started college, I've noticed a guy who is in 2 of my classes, didn't really notice at first (apart from the fact I was physically attracted to him) but now I cant stop thinking about him. Strange. So on the first day we met, I had a dream of us "together" and we even had sex. My mind is obviously playing tricks with me but why am I so infatuated, so quickly? Haven't even held a conversation with him yet? How do I approach him? I'm really shy.For your information I'm 16, virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): This is all perfectly normal at your age. Try not to let yourself get obsessed by this boy. It will make you more ill at ease when in his company. I would say try as hard as you can to be natural and friendly. Maybe you'll get the chance to speak and then you may change your mind - he may not be all you imagine. Fantasy crushes can be 'perfect' because so much is in your imagination.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 I recommend that you spend more time studying and less time thinking about this guy.....
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): Awww bless you :). I know how you feel, been there done that kinda thing. BUT didn't have dreams about me and have him sex though lol. My situation involved seeing him everyday in college, but I was never in his lessons though. So your lucky you see this boy that you seem to have the hots for pretty bad ;)Anyway it's your subconscious that allows you to have such dreams. You are obviously so attracted to him that you actually realise my love. It's cute, don't worry :)
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reader, Blod +, writes (15 September 2011):
 This sounds like a subconscious thing. You're consciously aware that you're physically attracted to him, but he's clearly created more of an impression than you realize. You note that you're a virgin, and from experience, I think that maybe lack of experience with romance can enhance your feelings towards someone, if that makes sense. When I was about your age, I used to get so carried away when I even interacted with a guy, dreaming that I was pregnant with their child and getting married and stuff. I hadn't been with anyone at 16 either. It sounds absurd but I can relate. So in my opinion, it could be related to the number of guys you haven't or have been with. When you're young, you're more naive and it doesn't take much for someone to have a profound effect on you, even if you don't realize it! Hope this helps in some way.
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