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writes:I hurt this girl I honestly do love and care about almost a year ago. It resulted in the end of our friendship and possible romantic relationship. I was an idiot and apologized and I get she has a right to be mad at me.It happended in an amount of time and I don't think we had a chance to build a strong foundation/relationship to be able to go through things (if that makes sense)I'm just wondering after all this time (almost a year) and I've apologized why I still think about her everyday and still miss her and feel guilty! Is it possible I still have feelings for her, or is it that I'm dealing with guilt......or maybe both?! I just wonder if I had not messed things up that I could be with this amazing person and I kind of kick myself in the head because now I'll probably never know. Still I don't want to be stuck and upset over this forever Reply to this Question
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reader, Sex_counsellor  +, writes (18 June 2011):
 It would be helpful to know exactly what it was that you did if you are willing to share that with us?Sounds like you still having feelings for this girl, if this is potentially your first possible romance then it can be quite normal to become obsessed with an individual. My advice would be either try and work things out with this girl or if she will not forgive you, you need to move on and find someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): I know exactly what you are going through, because I am going throught the same thing. I know what it is like to still have strong feelings for someone even though you both aren't together anymore. The question is, is she willing to take you back again? If you can some how prove to her you still want her and she accepts this, all I can say is you are a lucky man. Whatever you do, don't hurt her again though!
And on the contrary, she may see the time you both had together in the past as a phase and she could be happy to move on. That is when you have to accept her reasons too. Don't get angry at her if she wants this, just accept it and remember the good times you had. Hopefully one day you will forget about her. Love and relationships are not easy. You have to have a strong heart and move on.
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