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writes: Love is like playing Russian Roulette, and nobody ever wins. When you fall for a guy/girl, it feels like euphoria. Your heart is pounding, sweaty palms, butterflies in your stomach, and you experience fantasies in your mind about what you want to do to that person. When you finally start to be with that person, it will feel great, right? Well, what if they say that they are involved with somebody else and they don't tell you about it? What if they say that they love you, but in reality they're thinking about somebody else? Love is full of deception and it will put you into a trap that you can't come out of until it's too late. I have been in two relationships and it was all about lies and deceit. They got pregnant with somebody else and one of them wanted me to take care of her child. I broke up with both of them because they have lied to me and it makes me sick when someone you really care about would screw you over. But that was six years ago. Now, I am single and still trying to find that special someone. In my opinion, I feel that it is ridiculous to be in a relationship that will only bring pain and misery because the person you thought you love is cheating on you and you don't even know about it until they are caught. I would never do that to a girl because I would be there for her no matter what. Do not sell your life short. There is a lot of things out there besides love and you can't rush it. It only takes time and when the time is right, you will finally find that special someone out there who has more love to give like you. As for me, I don't think that I want to be in a relationship because I would always assume that the person I am with maybe cheating on me, and if there is anyone available out there, I may or may not be available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCateyes, thanks for posting your response. I really appreciate that. And LJ001, thank you so much for being a true friend to the end. Keep posting your comments. They're really great!
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reader, Cateyes  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 I can relate in SO MANY ways, and I understand the hurt you are going through. I can only wish that GOD will heal your heart soon.
There is more to love, then love. However, I also believe that you should truly enjoy being with the one you are with and that each can communicate, respect and literally enjoy being with that person...and not for the wrong reasons. To many now adays are more selfish for their own reasons, and forget about the one's they hurt...especially if it's for their own self gratification. Sometimes, it has nothing to do with the REAL reason they may be with you, it's for another.
Again...great article! Thanks for posting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): You make some great points :] Love can be such a dangerous thing and so many people let themselves fall and get hurt, without knowing the true dangers of what the outcome could be. Very wise :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey Hope 123, thanks for your response and I hope that everything will come out in the end. I truly appreciate that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): There's some good lessons in there - it's true, love doesn't have to be the most important thing in life, when there's so many more things that won't lead to pain.
Love is amazing when it works out - but it's sad when you get hurt and don't trust anyone anymore.
You seem like a nice guy and you deserve someone who will love you and only you. One day i'm sure that that will happen for you :-)
xx Hope xx
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