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writes:wen an ex contacts you . it is not a calling to start an affair or a beckoning to be friends with this person. It is a call for you to look over the choices you've made in this life and to see what choices you made to make you the person that you are today. it is a call to review your life to see why you made the choices you made which might not be that easy to see on the surface. You almost have to obsess about it to see the thing it was about you your family life etcn that made you break up with this person and choose the person you did. When I was contacted by ex it brought up a lot of hurt because he cheated on me when we were dating but a lot of people would jump at the chance at a do over. I wanted to know what was it about me that made me jump in the other direction at such an offer. I did like the facet that jumping at that dishonorable offer kind of negated all the other wonderful relationships I had with people after we broke up I almost wanted to thank him for breaking my heart so badly because if he did not I would not have the life I had with all the other people I met since then. What it is it about people that would enter into a crappy deal. the one thing about getting involved with an ex is you already know what your going to get and why would someone want that? what makes someone want that magical feeling of first love when you know the heartbreak that went with it
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