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writes:I'm a 15 year old female and a sophomore in high school. I've always been very careful with how I interact with males, and have never dated any guy, although I've been asked out once. According to my friends, guys may just think I might say no to them if they were to ask me out, so they don't. (I moved after the original guy asking me out, so I've started over, though). Anyway, a guy I met when I first moved here--let's call him CC for the fun of it.I've known , a guy I met when I first moved here--let's call him CC for almost two years now, and we always got along pretty well, but he was always less social than me. However, I've recently started talking to him more again, and I've never been more sure that there's mutual feelings between me and a guy before. He's different from all the other guys I've met, and almost reminds me of my brother, in that he's smart, but athletic, and not extremely social, but nice and easy to talk to once he opens up.So I'm just wondering, as things naturally progress, is there a certain time when it may be too late for either of us to make a move? I know I'll remain his friend, so I'm not in a rush, and I know patience is important. I just want to make sure that I don't let a great oppotunity pass me by.Also, my parents have said that they'd allow me to hang out with him as long as I have other friends around. When should we start being romantic at all?Side note: I haven't had my first kiss yet, so I'm going to be careful with that. Also, I don't give hugs to maaaany people. Don't get the wrong idea though, all of my friends feel that I'm one of the most caring and kindest people they know! I'm really happy about that. :] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh yeah, that's another thing, I've subtely told him I think he's a great guy, etc...I've pointed out why he's amazing to me, and so on. He's said some things back as well. This is why I kind of know the feeling is mutual. He's really nice to me, and he usually doesn't socialize with girls.
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reader, Tewebag +, writes (4 April 2009):
theres no rush really you may be friends for year and it slowly works into a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. if you want to date him, why dont you start something with it? Shy guys wont make the move (took me a long time to do something cause im shy) so if you want something start talking to him giving hints about how you dont have a boyfriend, havnt had your first kiss whatever you want from him.
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