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writes:hey i recently had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom just after he said that hes ready.... anyway he did wear it but now im over a week late for my period...im soooo scard what do i doAdditionally, from the same question asker:this maybe a stupid question but i need an answer... when should the guy actually put the condom on... once hes hard or when he is ready to cum...
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reader, shandy88 +, writes (15 November 2008):
Heya hun,
I would personally say that he should put one on before he has any contact with you, that way you arent taking any risks, which leads on to your current predicament... it is possible for you to be pregnant if he has contact with you even if he didnt cum. i would leave it another couple of days and then go down to your nearest young persons clinic. That way you will not have to pay for the pregnancy test and they will be able to advice you whatever the consequences. I hope that everything turns out ok.x.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): The condom goes on before he goes in you! Before he cums he can get pre-cum - if there happens to be the odd spunk knocking around on him already then the pre-cum could carry it into your body. It can also carry any STIs he might have. He should NOT go inside you at all without a condom unless you actually intend to conceive.
Get a pregnancy test ASAP to be on the safe side. If you are pregnant you have three choices -
Abort
Adopt
Keep
Personally I think aborting in the late stages of pregnancy is inhumane (they cut it up inside you before they remove it) so if you are going to you need to decide soon (if it's a small foetus they just kill it with an injection.)
Keeping the baby is a massive responsibility.
However if it gets adopted then you may not be able to access your kid until they turn 18.
But don't think about that until you know the results of the test, as if he didn't actually cum inside you, although not impossible, it is unlikely that you are pregnant - you're most likely late because you're stressing over it! Some people just randomly skip a period anyway, so until you know the results of the test, try not to panic. Do come back and tell us how you got on =]
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (15 November 2008):
um they need to put the condom on before you have sex!!!!!
as soon as he has an erection the condom goes on. there's no point in just putting it on before he cums, because on the tip of his penis he shall get pre-cum, which you can get pregnant from and also catch STD's. with condoms, usually comes instructions, i suggest you read them and get him to learn about condoms as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): The guy should put the condom on before he enters the woman. Even if he doesn't come, if you have intercourse without the condom, the man has pre-cum that leaks out that contains sperm and you can get pregnant. If your period is late, then you need to take a pregnancy test as soon as possible.
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