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writes:i got dumped today. I was only seein him for 3 months but he finished it 2day sayin i wasnt the one for him. Ive been out with him before a few years back and he dumped me for someone else, so I shouol of know better and steered clear when he came back into my life again. The first time he finshed with me i was heartbroken and didnt get over it for about a year. Then when im finally over it, he comes back and does it again. I feel so stupid, everyone warned me but I didnt listen. Ive been crying all day, cant eat anything and dont wanna sleep. The upset is worse than the first time round. But I dont know what im more upset about...the fact that he dont want me or the fact that I should never of gone back 2 him and should of listened to my friends. I dont know what to do. I really dont want it to last for months like the first time. I know Ive made a big mistake but I cant stop feeling this hurt.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (15 August 2008):
 As the old saying goes Love Is Blind. That statement is so true, When we really like someone invarible we can't see any faults in them, the only one's that can see it are people outside, like family and friends. If i had listened to my family & friends i would have saved myself from 2 un-happy relationships, unfortunately we don't listen to them and just carry on regardless.
I think that you have learnt a valuable lesson here, so don't do a hatrick and take him back for a third time because this guy is just not worth it, you are worth so much more than him. I know it does not feel like it now but things will get easier, time is the healer of all pain. Don't let this experience put you off of dating guys, we are not as shallow as him. Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on. Sooner or later you will meet a really nice guy, and probably when you very least expect it.
All the best x
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